I was home with my younger sister and she thought she was alone so i walked into her room to ask her a question and she was on her bed fingering herself. we wont even look at eachother and when i talk to her she gets all nervouse. what should i do?
2007-03-25 13:15:50 · 27 answers · asked by J.C_22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I really wouldnt get to worked up about it, at the end of the day lots of ppl do it, i know that every1 is telling you not to stress and its easier said than done but how old is she anyway?? in a a way im sure you would prefer to see her doing that than see her actually having sex with someone, it will all blow over eventually my brother has caught me in some really embarrasing situations as i have him we laugh about it now but then i just wanted the ground to swallow me lol!!! give her a hug and keep your chin up hunny
mwah x x
2007-03-26 20:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by confusedxx 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is probably a good time to learn about the respect of privacy. If you were to take your sister off to the side and tell her that the incident was an accident and apologize for the intrusion assuring her that you will knock from now on and her privacy was not going to be broadcast to family or used against her and the incident forgotten, you probably will have created a bond of undying respect and love with your sister and the benefit of that is life long.
2007-03-25 13:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by missionaryplus 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WOW!! OK, First talk to her, let her know masturbation is natural... you do it too... Heck, everone does. Second, After the talk with her, continue to discuss it in later conversations, and ask her to be open in the discussions. Third, You are one lucky guy! Invite your sister to join you in a masturbation session... learn from each other... and make the best out of the situation. Good luck! Have fun! Keep me posted on what happens.
2007-03-26 10:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by Supercooldude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, well that must suck for the both of you. Act like it never happened, and just go on. You should have knocked first. That's why doors were invented. Don't take this to heart. What would you do if she caught you beating off?
2007-03-25 13:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just let time pass she's really embarrased I mean my brother did that once I couldn't face for a while but he know he needs to knock the next time he comes in.
2007-03-25 13:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by Indira B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it's ok. It's better to see her fingering herself than seeing her having sex with a man.
2007-03-25 14:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by supersweetfungal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...in my family we would just ignore it. I guess it depends on what kind of relationship you have with your sister. If you feel comfortable, you could just tell her that its ok, lots of people do it and leave it at that. Even though she'll be embarrassed, she might think to herself later and be ok with it.
2007-03-25 13:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by cudancegirl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try your best to pluck up the courage to speak to her. Just say, I know how embarressed you must be feeling but its ok, i dont think any differently of you and I'm not gonna tell anyone at all! So lets just forget it and try to go back to normal, cos your hating the awkwardness.
2007-03-25 13:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by cj 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that it happens and it's no big deal and keep it between the two of you. Tell her you just want to get back to the way it was before that happened.
2007-03-25 13:21:30 · answer #9 · answered by Inquiring mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're sorry and then explain to her that it's no big deal.....masturbation is a normal act and millions of people, young and old do it!!! Next time you feel the need to go into her room....knock first.
2007-03-25 13:20:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋