My girlfriend and I live about 750 miles from each other and I know we Love each other unconditionally, but I tend to get rather selfish about the time frame of her moving to me. What can I do to let her know that I love her and will wait for her no matter how long it takes. We were ment to be together and there is no doubt in my mind it will happen, it's just when.
2007-03-25 13:09:03 · 6 answers · asked by jcmc3056 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, to the guy who posted the first answer - Grow up!!
Now... your impatience and selfishness is charming. She is a lucky girl and I'm sure she's just as impatient as you are. Keep in mind that she's probably scared that you might lose interest or find someone who can fulfill your needs immediately. Making those kinds of arrangements takes time but I'm sure she is doing the best she can to get everything in order as quickly as possible. Remember what you said about unconditional love and please be patient with her. It will be so worth it, guaranteed!!
2007-03-26 07:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by bnm4infinity 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im going through the same situation. Me and my bf are in a long distance relationship, and ive always doubt about this relationship to last for a long time because I know we wont be seeing each other much because we are both soo busy. But he said he's planning to come see me in the summer. We only talk on the phone nowadays. He's never mentioned about him ever moving to where I am now, but he's said to me that he hopes he's the last guy I will be with. I dont know its hard to think of a future together when two people dont live close to each other. You just have to let time decide and you never know what happens in the future...
2007-03-25 13:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, there are no black and white, yes or no, or any type of exact response for this type of question. Everyone is different. Therefore, it depends on both of you. It depends on how old you both are, how financially stable are either of you to be even willing to move out, and etc...
This question has alot of other questions you have to ask yourself and her to get to any conclusion. You both need to set your goals and try to achieve them. Both of you need to know that patience will be the key to this type of situation. And I'm pretty sure you have some level of it, because "long distance relationships" are quite the handful!!!
Just relax, talk it out, and yes I know it will be difficult! But, if both of you are TRULY dedicated and not willing to quit, then it will work.
Best of Luck to you & many wishes. Take Care!
2007-03-25 13:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by micolperu317 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my lady is a lot further than that and i cant wait either --- she has no problems moving closer to me but i would move closer to her if that was necessary --- just be a constant for her --- let her know you care and be there for her when she needs you
2007-03-25 13:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sir i really think if you are really in love with her and you think you should wait on her then follow your heart.
2007-03-25 13:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by mz.libra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow some hair and then she might like you more
2007-03-25 13:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by Modus Operandi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋