ok, so i'v hooked up with this guy a few times and im starting to have feelings for him and i wanted to know how he felt, when i asked him if he actually liked me or we were just hooking up, he said we "were just hooking up...for now" what does this all mean, im so confused? thanks
2007-03-25 13:07:04 · 8 answers · asked by dirtyblondxo4lyf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he's saying he's a player.
:O
or maybe he's just joking because you guys are on and off
2007-03-25 13:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find that women have the need to be told way to early in a relationship, on HOW MUCH THE GUY CARES, where do we stand now or so. It's something I did too when younger but ,learned that, it is best to just move along, tell you're feelings if you want to but, yeah, a huge but, DO NOT EXPECT TO GET AN ANSWER , if you do, for the most part, you'll be disappointed for guys are not like women. They process they're thoughts different and usually have a hard time to express feelings. IT'S A MAN'S THING.
Just enjoy the ride for however long it will last, we/they , have no controll over anyone or anything.
2007-03-25 13:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definately likes you. But he seems unsure of whether he wants something more. Guys usually know right away if they really like someone and want to be with them. If this guy is not giving you a straight answer, then he probably only likes you for hooking up. Sorry and good luck
2007-03-25 13:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe when he said that 'we're just hooking up", he is speaking for his self. Cause you just admitted that you are starting to have feelings for him, you are not hooking up anymore. Give him time to develop what he feels right now but if you feel and see that he's contented just to hooking up, start deciding for yourself.
2007-03-25 13:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by dale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is telling you you are both just hooking up for now and the for now means that in future he may ask you out. so be ready for a nice future date, take care and enjoy Heather
2007-03-25 13:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just his booty-call, his fling, his jump-off....
Until a better booty-call, fling or jump-off comes along
2007-03-25 13:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by beenabytch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is getting to know you a little better if he is your type....
2007-03-25 13:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by Shadow Venom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was using you for sex and that's all it was to him.
2007-03-25 13:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by Yahoo Con 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋