that wants more than sex. I'm not saying every man uner 35 just wants to have sex, ( the ones that want a serious relationship are find to find.) but shouldn't someone older be ready for a serious relationship and not play so many games?
2007-03-25 13:02:02 · 15 answers · asked by hanna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a 32 year old man and all my peers and friends are pretty much ranging from 21 to 48ish. I've observed that age has very little to do with maturity. I have friends that are in their early thirties and late forties and still looking to "play the field" and others in their mid twenties looking to settle down. The problem these days is impatience. Women don't want to take the time to feel out a guy and see what he's about. I can be whoever you want for 3 months after that the truth of a guy starts showing through. Just be patient a pay attention to the signs in front of you and you will find Mr. Right instead of trying for Mr. Right-now
2007-03-25 13:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by Inquiring mind 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you want is someone who is ready to invest in a relationship as much as you, which may or may not be 35+ years. Try checking out guys on an online dating site and search for the ones that listed 'looking for serious relationship'. It doesn't hurt to look and besides you just may find there are some great guys out there looking for relationships. P.S. I have some friends who met this way and now are married!
Anyway even if you don't make contact with anyone in your search you can see the guys are out there.
2007-03-25 20:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by HollySmiles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said men 35 and over just want a wife? I'm sure there's tons of wealthy older men who just want to play "Sugar Daddy" to countless women and have empty, sometimes degrading sex with no strings attached. That's naive to think most older men want only a serious relationship.
You have to catch a man regardless of age when he's ready for a serious relationship, and the chemistry between you has to be there. Otherwise, it's just another statistic.
2007-03-25 20:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Careful cause many older men are better at playing games without being detected. But if looking for an older man, find one that has been in committed relationship before and if he has children make sure they will not be a problem for you. One last hint, if the older man is willing to bring you around his family, then you have a catch! Good Luck.
2007-03-25 20:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by Joseph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WRONG!!!!! Most guys that age are either married and playin, or divorced because they couldn't stop playin. Besides, do you really want their baggage? I won't say you're still young because you're really not (I'm 44, so you're youngER than me), but you still have a long way to go. I'd stick with the 25-28/29 group. I know most guys think with the head between their legs, that's just how it is. I'm one of the guys that didn't always want sex, but you know something? I couldn't keep a girl because of it. I was one of those "You're a great guy, BUT.....", and I got burned every time. Don't look for love, let it find you. If you're tired of the bar thing, try online personals. That way, you can state upfront you like & dislikes and only the interested ones will apply. Good luck my dear becasue it's a dog eat dog world out there and you're wearing milkbone underwear!!
2007-03-25 20:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jim C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie men dont grow up they just get bigger. I recently dated an older man and he pretended he wanted a wife and all that good stuff and the more and more i got to know him the more i found out that he was a fraud and just like all the other and did i mention all that i got out of the deal was a baby. If i could turn back the hands of time i would have RAN the day i met him.
2007-03-25 20:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by Delecia L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm 23 and I'm all about a serious relationship. Truth is EVERYONE is ready for a serious relationship when they meet the right person.. just most girls I meet aren't worth it. You should just be friends with a lot of guys first.. this way you will connect in a non-sexual way first and have a stronger bases for a serious relationship later
2007-03-25 20:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I wish I can assure you that maturity comes with age. There are actually 35+ men out there who are more immature than 17yr old kids. Yeah, I know, quite pathetic, huh?
If you have been burned dating guys your age, and would want to try the "older generation" - go for it. Just remember older doesn't always mean better!
My very best to you.
2007-03-25 20:10:59 · answer #8 · answered by Inday 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible --- we (as im well over 35) are looking for a serious relationship its just that we also include sex as part of the relationship --- to a lot of us sex is fun a way to get closer and get better the longer we are with out partner --- so we are not going to dump someone just because we have had sex --- if that make sense --- best wishes
2007-03-25 20:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, men that much older than you are gonna be so hard up that they got a younger girl and are gonna wanna have sex all the time as well. Also, at that age most men have already had a more experienced life than you with ex wives and kids......DONT go through the drama, it aint worth it!!!!!
2007-03-25 20:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋