I have this problem, I've dating this guy for a little over a month. And he is a good guy very nice and patient. But as of recently my ex-boyfriend has come back on the scene. Now I use to love this man like no bodies business before we broke up. We broke up because he ended up getting this other woman pregnant, and felt that's where he needed to be. After I got over the hurt from that I stayed single for a while, but now he's back. He recently emailed, and we have been talking every since. He has told me how much he has missed me and that he still loves me, but the thing is he is still with his daughter's mother. When I asked him why is he still with her if he is so un-happy, he told me because he is trying to be a good man. I will admit I do still have feelings for this man, but not like I use to. What do I do? He wants to get together as just friends, is that a good idea?
2007-03-25 12:58:17 · 11 answers · asked by Ms. Educated 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bad news. Keep your distance, although you can talk to him on the phone or E-mail or chat. Just don't put yourself in a position that would come between him and that baby.
If you were the one for him, he wouldn't have slept around on you anyway.
2007-03-25 13:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-03-29 05:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I partially agree with the above posts; however, I will add that if you are willing to forgive him and really considering going after your ex, regardless of the posts above and despite what your ex has done, don't do it until you have given your current guy an honest chance. If you ignore this, you will kick yourself over what *could* have happened with the guy you're with now, especially if things go bad again with your ex. Not only that, but it's not fair to the guy you're with now to not give him an honest chance. If it doesn't work out a month or two down the line, THEN you can think about, but I would say it's your responsibility out of respect to give your current guy the love he deserves until proven otherwise. It's the right thing to do, trust me.
2007-03-25 13:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Art Student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this question is very close to home for me..
Apart from the child part i know exactly what is going on here.
Now, this guy needs to find himself and what he wants.. Clearly, i know he has a child but if he is unhappy with the person he is with then he shouldnt be with her.
Also, if he wants to be with you he should do all he can to get rid of the mother of his child and concentrate on who/what is going to make him happy ie- you.
Dont let him string you along being the 2nd person in his life, he may well be a really nice guy but honestly do not let him think he has you in the bag and that he will persue a relationship with you when he is ready and have you waiting in the wings. I went through this not long ago and i know how it feels, it does your head in.
Just play it cool, wait until the excess baggage is well and truely gone and then see if there is any sign of anything left between you two.
Best of luck, i hope i have helped :)
2007-03-25 13:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
E-mailing an 'ex' on the sly while being with the mother of your child is not 'trying to be a good man.' He's two-timing her, just like he two-timed you. He won't stop with being 'just friends' - he plans to have both of you whenever he wants. Call him on his bluff and tell him to get lost. He made his choice, now he has a family and a responsibility to uphold.
2007-03-25 13:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by dukefenton 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly wanted to be with you he would try to gain custody of his little girl..do not let him use that as a excuse maybe he is just trying to feel you out to see if you can accept this child. ten years from now will it matter? the child can chose who she wants to live with. i think you may cause yourself hurt if you met up with him. but then agin if you just have to do. but i wouldnt make it a habbit. what are your motives to see him to get back in his life or just eat a salad together. i would guard my heart. you could be nice to him but tell him he kind of made his own bed.
2007-03-25 13:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by jerry w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to leave him alone. If he is unhappy that means that he deserves it. i recently had a baby with a loser who left me while i was pregnant with his son, now he is unhappy and he deserves every waking minute of it. If you were to get back with him you would just waste time and give him more room to hurt you again because not only did he cheat on you and get another girl pregnant he left you and went with her. leave that loser alone. Trust me you ARE the lucky one
2007-03-25 13:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by Delecia L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go suck eggs!! He burned you once, now he's burning another woman, and he'll burn you again. Let me ask you this - how many times do you need to be hit in the head with a bat before you realize it hurts?
2007-03-25 13:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally know i wouldnt be able to handle that situation. u will prob end up falling for him all over again if you see him. be very very careful and be SURE you can just be friends BEFORE seeing him. i would also talk to your present boyfriend about the situation.
2007-03-25 13:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by liz1214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants to have you and his babymomma too. Stay with your new bf and tell him you found someone that treats you with the respect you deserve.
2007-03-25 13:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by hanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋