do girls really need to be sluts to get dates cus thats what it feels like
2007-03-25 12:46:15 · 11 answers · asked by Sam B 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually that depends on the guy... I think that men who like to go out with "easy" girls have a low self-esteem. You know why? Because men do not like to express our affections using our voices but using our bodies (hugging, kissing, having sex).
It is always easier to do things when you know they are "sure". You can let you affections out without much efforts and that's less stressing than taking the risk and going for someone on your own.
The rest of us do not strive just for having sex and we want a woman in who we can count on, have fun and enjoy life as a couple. Sure that might include sex once in a while, but sex would not be the base of the relationship. I personally hate when I approach a woman and she behaves as if I just wanted to 'intercourse' her. Most of the times, I just want to try to know her to see (find out, assess, evaluate) if it is worth my time, believe it or not.
Yeah, we men are picky too.
Hope this helps.
2007-04-02 07:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by Tedel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course guys like to date easy girls... because they are that EASY. The real question is... do they like to keep those girls? And the answer is NO! Go ahead and let the sluts get the dates they're only creating a lonely future for them self by creating this reputation. Good girls, get good guys, ones who respect them for more than just a romp in the hay! Keep your morals and you'll find a really nice person. Young guys are only into bragging rights, once the bragging gets old, they'll look for someone who isn't tainted!
2007-04-02 19:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by luv2help 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer this question for me.....
If someone gave you a dollar a day for 100 years... would you not take the dollar everyday that it was given to you...
Yes! you would....Guys are the same way.... if you give them the most important thing in your life( what makes you....U ) don't you think that they would take it....
Give a Dog a bone ??? Does he not eat it..... Don't ever feel like a slu*........
Your just misunderstood... you only feel that way because of what you are doing....
Try changing your way and see... you will have hater... and you will have friends who will respect your decision and say wow! You’re a special one... and they will like that about you
Why you say....Because you love you......
And no one will love you more than you..... everyone is out for one thing .... trying to make themselves happy....
Why not make you happy by doing what you want to ????
Don't ever bring you.... down cause the rest of the world will do the same thing....
Hold your head up and the world looks up to you..........
2007-04-02 15:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by lapeachroses 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, we all do not want only sex, yes it is a part of the relationship BUT only when both persons are willing and when they BOTH feel its right, if you find a guy who is not willing to wait until your ready then be done with him, he isn't worth your time! We don't want an easy girl, we want a girl who cares for herself enough to wait until she is ready!
2007-04-02 07:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by David D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want a guy who's a comlete loser. sure he may be "popular" but honestly, WHO REALLY CARES?! if you end up dating a guy like that you're gonna end up pregnant with no way to support your child. here's a little piece of advice: DON'T GO THERE! keep your standards and you WILL get a date eventually.
2007-04-02 19:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by flunkedlunch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys do expect sex to be a part of a relationship. I suggest you seek out websites regarding virgin dating or go through a church to meet people.
2007-03-27 16:14:33 · answer #6 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think that you should date through virgin dating site cause then you will have a better chance of getting a guy who will wait
2007-04-02 17:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by NavyChic2011 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is the pope catholic?
do bears s**t in the woods?
Sluts may get dates, but they also get pregnant, diseases, and a life that no one admires. Don't go there; its not worth it.
2007-04-02 18:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes, they have sex with you then take you home. It's a cheap date all the way around.
2007-04-02 14:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by God Bless America 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my thoughts i dont want to date easy girls coz i like who is she is strong and dont come easly and she is proud at hear self .
2007-04-02 18:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by gaith a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋