ok so i am 15 and my girlfriend is 14 andshe wants to come and move in with me because her dad is so mean to her should I let her
2007-03-25 12:42:27 · 13 answers · asked by the biggest BYU cougars fan!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know bro... relationships get veryyy nasty once you guys start living together. It will more likely than not end up in a break-up... and where will she go then? You have to think about the future. If you mean her dad is abusive, maybe it's time to contact DCF. I was in a relationship for over 4 years from when I was 13 till 17... I was a 100% sure we would get married and one day it just all ended... we don't even talk any more... you can never be too sure with relationships. Don't take huge steps without really thinking about it first.
2007-03-25 12:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by flare_ztx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i wouldn't necessarily let her LIVE with you, but let her spend the night sometimes and let her over a lot. You need your space.. my boyfriend lived with me for a while but then when we broke up it was really weird and I didn't want to just kick him out in the cold so now he's still living with us and it hurts. You don't want that to happen... if her dad is really mean to her, than maybe you should talk to a school counselor about it or get some help for her. If her dad is abusive, verbally or physically, I do believe that she should not be living with him. Talk to someone about this, and in the mean time let her over a lot until she can break free of this bad situation. Be there for her
2007-03-25 19:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK... If she is getting treated that badly, then yes, get her the hell out of where she is. But, the question for you is, are you serious about this girl? Because if you're unsure, then no, don't. Can you trust her? That's a serious issue. You are both very very young. I don't personally believe you should based on your age, although that is none of my concern, You need to think about it carefully. Sometimes circumstances are different and you need to do things that don't seem right to other people, but don't ever let people criticize you. Follow your heart!
2007-03-25 19:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by Krysta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. This isn't your responsibility. If you mean that her father beats her, then it isn't your job to give her a place to move in...BUT you SHOULD tell someone if he is physically abusive. If that's the case, you wouldn't want her to move in with you because her father could come after you. If she's just having arguments with her father like most 14 year old girls do, then you need to let them work it out. He's going to be her father forever and they need to learn how to get along.
2007-03-25 19:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young and you might get caught up in something that you don't want to.
I guess it depends on the people and on the situation. If it is to the point where her dad is beating her and she has no where else to go, ex. a familys, a friends, then I guess it would be okay to let her move in with you.
2007-03-25 19:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by !~!JeWeL eLiZeBetH!~! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! You don't need their problems coming into your home, and they will. Plus, she'll be considered a runaway and you and your family will be guilty of harboring one. If she is in danger, by all means let her in, but otherwise NO!! Besides, how long do you really think you're going to remain a couple anyway?
2007-03-25 19:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would be up to your parents talk to them and see what they say her dad may have to give up gaurdianship in order for her to move in full time
2007-03-25 19:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by Robert B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say you never no some one until you live with them so if you think your relationship has real serious potential and you want to see how far it could go then yeah but if you not serious then no itll probly make you guys hate each other
2007-03-25 19:59:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ty-baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both very young for this. I would say no live life.
2007-03-25 19:50:26 · answer #9 · answered by SADGIRLOH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have ONE life. You are your captin and always remember that. If you love her and think she is the one for you do it. If you have any doubt ask yourself WHY. Julian
2007-03-25 19:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by jmartinez562 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋