2007-03-25 12:42:26 · 13 answers · asked by coach 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it's absolutely fine to have male friends outside of your relationship. Your significant other may be a little bit jealous of your male companions, and that's normal. Just reassure them that your male friends are only friends and nothing more. Also mention that you respect your relationship and your partner enough to not betray their trust as well as to not jeopardize your relationship.
2007-03-25 12:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Shandra S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In theory it is cool to have many friends if you are the friendly type since your relationship started.... But why are you putting so much importance on the other guy? What IF your partner has another female friend outside of the relationship? ... Would it be OK? Your question sounds sneaky ... it is loaded with suspicion, in my opinion.
2007-03-25 20:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by Radio Panamericana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think it is okay, it is quite healthy as long as you are not hiding it from your partner and your feelings are purely that of friendhip. If you feel more for your friend than just friendship then this may damage your relationship.
2007-03-25 19:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
UM OF COURSE!! You should, especially ones who are friends with the guy you're IN a relationship with, because then you can find deep stuff on your guy. But seriously, I have more guy friends than girl friends, and I've only dated like two and had a crush on three out of like ten. It's all good. You SHOULD have them!
2007-03-25 19:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by lexis-gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your partner is ok with it and you don't sneak around. It may also be a good idea to bring your partner along when you meet this friend so your partner will feel at ease about your friendship.
2007-03-25 19:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by Misty Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes as long as there are no other agendas. The second that something else is going on besides friendship on either side it becomes inappropriate.
2007-03-25 19:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by Inquiring mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so, as long as you keep it at a safe distance, no giant hugs, things like that. ask your bf about it to make sure its ok though.
2007-03-25 19:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by ChickAroo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, I have a lot of guy friends. And two of them are some of my best friends.
2007-03-25 19:47:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but if u have to ask the question there may be more to it do u have any intimate feelin for this person ??
2007-03-25 19:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by mahoganysoul28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your boyfriend kicks the crap out of you for it, sure why not?
2007-03-25 20:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋