I'm in love with a friend. we spend a lot of time together and work together as well. I don't know if she likes me as more, yes I'm a woman too. I love to hang out with her. Sometimes it feels like we're in a friendship, other times like a relationship. We go to dinner a lot and when i drop her off at home she always says softly, "I had a really good time....I mean it. I really did." It's confusing because of the way she acts. Like the other night we went out for dinnerand afterwards she said that she wished we could just walk over and stay at the hotel next door. And she's suggested going on weekend trips every other weekend and visiting her home city but not see her parents who live there. It'd be just our thing.
on the flip side I'm starting to get really jealous because this guy has started emailing her at work and she's been talking to him. she says she's not interested but I think maybe she will be. I don't know what to do. Does she like me more than a friend or what? help!
2007-03-25 12:40:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so you mean your a lesbian?!?!?!!?
2007-03-25 12:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by marauderprongs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take a step back, and review the situtation. I was in a similiar situation, but it turned out okay at the end. We sat and talked about it, and told each other how we honestly felt, and now the bitter part is just history (he's in another country and I am waiting for his return! He's on deployment). In your situation, like I said, I would just take a step back, and slow things down a bit. See how she feels about you and about him. If she wants to be with you, then nothing will change between you and her, and the other guy will soon just be history. But if she's dancing between the both of you, and you can clearly see this, I would talk to her about it, and tell her how you feel. Hopefully, she will be mature about your feelings and everything will work out in the end. Good luck!
2007-03-25 12:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by Tapanga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course she does and maybe she is waiting on you to make the fist move, but if you do make the first move don't get carried away just let her know how you feel, I'm almost positive she is feeling the same way, but then again some girls are just like that, she could be thinking of y'all as two very close friends, but whatever happens I hope it works out for you...good luck
2007-03-25 12:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have another person ask her if she would ever hook up with a woman. Does she always talk about guys if so she's more likely straight than lez so you might get hurt even if you do have one night with her
2007-03-25 12:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of you forgot to tell us your sexuality straight by or lebian
from your question i am guessing by or lesbian
And maybe u should just ask if she likes u it might open a new can of worms but u will have your answer
good luck
2007-03-25 12:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by Ariellle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
all you can do is talk to her about it and be open with her about how you feel before it is too late and someone snatches her up
2007-03-25 12:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok..is she a Lesbine to??
If she is she tottaly like you..
tell her your feelings about her..
2007-03-25 12:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her before he do
2007-03-25 12:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by juliana h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act slutty around him
2007-03-25 12:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋