I found the perfect girl we have beem dating for 1 month and i know i like her a lot. the problem is that i was going to invite her to go see my parents in california and thats 1000's of miles away from where we live and i dont know if its too soon for such a long trip with her. i dont want her to feel like we are moving to fast. What do you think? should i go on with it?
2007-03-25 12:34:43 · 15 answers · asked by J.C_22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It does sound a little too soon, but there's nothing wrong with taking this trip to get to know her even more. It could be a lot of fun. As long as you think that you'd feel comfortable spending all of that time together. I'd ask her with understanding- just say you think that it would be fun for the two of you to take a trip together, but if she's not game for it then you totally understand. Also, you want to consider your parents' feelings. If you bring her along, make sure that you spend time with your parents and not just her! Good luck!
2007-03-25 12:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait a little while longer. 1 month doesn't give you enough time to truly know the depths of each other. Give a little more time and if you still feel the same after 6 months then proceed. Good luck!
2007-03-25 12:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by Inquiring mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! She would meet your parents even if they lived 5 miles away...and hey it is a trip to Cali! Cant go wrong but maybe fly so you do not have to worry about the same hotel room (if you are not there yet) Have fun!
2007-03-25 12:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by tasgunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is as into you as you are her, then no its not too early to make a trip like that. Just make sure you have enough things to talk about b4 you get on the way... uncomfortable silences are SOOO not good..
2007-03-25 12:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by heatherclhn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's still too soon. You haven't been with her long enough to know how things are going to go in the future. Plus she could freak out in fear of commitment.
2007-03-25 12:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss it with her, ask her if she would consider going to meet your parents one day with you, if she's the perfect girl like you say and you know her, she will give you the honest answer. If you think she's the perfect girl and yuo know her then you will know how she really feels when you discuss it with her! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
2007-03-25 12:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by chelsmat2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh so sweet of you. No my xbf introduced me to his parents 2 weeks after we met and their town is 6 hours away from the city .... it only shows how sincere you are to her.
2007-03-25 12:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by sugarspice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been dating for a month now. That should be enough to start moving forward heavily now.
Why don't you propose marriage as well? One month is enough to know everything.
2007-03-25 12:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by Kermit renversant de corporation 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude take it from me! Girls love to meet your family! It makes them feel like your taking them seriously! I say you should ask her but make sure you make it completly up to her. Dont make her feel obligated to go. She will most likely say yes. When you get there do your best to make her feel welcome. Let her become very well known to your family. She will love it and will want to give you whatever you want! TRUST ME! Girls love that kind of crap!
2007-03-25 12:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Jimmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it seems soon to me, let a relationship run for minimum 6 months, then meetings with parents...wait..
2007-03-25 12:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by Kiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋