I was on what I thought was a great relationships, for 4 months we dated. Even do we were in a long-distance relantioship, I did all my effort to see her every 2-3 weeks, traveling and spending all the necessary just to be with her, becuase I thought she was worth every moment. Then in our 4th month together she said that she need it to break things of, not becuase she did not love me, but that she suffered every moment we were appart (even do I saw her every 2-3 weeks) , and she wanted to ends things before she loved so much that it was so hard to be separated and also becuase she did not wanted to suffer when I was not around.
I do understand and I know that the distance is hard and you can not obligate someone to be with you!
But now, she is calling me every day, texting me also every day, still using words, like "my love", "honey", etc.
She said she will no change her mind to break thinks... but what can I do? What does she want?
2007-03-25 12:33:56 · 6 answers · asked by Falcon_ted 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop worrying about what SHE wants and start worrying about what YOU want. Ask yourself: Is this girl going to give me what I want?. If the answer is NO.. then move on. Don't let her torture you like that dude. She is being very self-centered.
2007-03-25 12:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She purely needs to be friends. in case you in basic terms % to be friends then be at liberty to attempt... from the sounds of it in spite of the indisputable fact that it won't artwork for you. you're too into her so a friendship may well be a pretend pretense to attempt and win her decrease back. She the two won't like that or will finally end up trashing your heart as she strikes on and starts thus far different adult adult males. I say save it as that's and decrease her off. If she somewhat needs you as something better than a chum then she would be in a position to no longer enable you slip away, in any different case a minimum of you have the respond and you will possibly be able to flow on your self.
2016-10-20 10:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by bassage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like she wants to control you. she knows you still have feelings for her so she takes advantage of that. don't let her do that. either you guys are in a relationship or not there's no in between. stop this as soon as possible before things get out of hand. YOU take a stand
2007-03-25 12:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by jdukenumber1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is really confused about her feelings or else she is dating other guys and wants to keep you on the back burner. Why don't you just casually date each other?
2007-03-25 13:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she really wants, because it sounds like she wants to be friends, and maybe have a second chance. She could be playing with your mind as well. You have to ask her. Be friends with her, don't block her totally and just talk.
2007-03-25 12:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by KS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree with mike t!!! think about your feelings & ask he point lank what is the purpose of the affectionate contact
2007-03-25 12:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by ms_debbieg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋