i really like this guy, but i cant wait for him...can i ask him?
2007-03-25 12:17:46 · 21 answers · asked by pooky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not sure how you know this guy or what your current relationship is with him but I would wait. I believe girls love to flirt (I am a guy) and I think you should take full advantage of this natural opertunity. Eventually if he doesnt take the hint casually ask him to do something and then make sure he knows you like him (if a girl likes me I know I am very likely to like her back). Dont be too agressive but definitely dont be passive in your pursuit of this guy.
2007-03-25 12:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by twid392™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it!! If you like him, then you shouldn't have to wait. And, you might be able to trick you're way around it... Ask him to start hanging out, or doing stuff together... Thats how i started my relationship 9 months ago and it's perfect. At first, i wasn't sure if i was looking for a girlfriend... Well, thats not true, i just found it hard to settle down. BUT, i commited myself and im happy i did. Show him your interested, and if you don't feel right about asking him out first, just throw yourself out there, make him see that you're really interested.
2007-03-25 12:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, the asking out sentence sounds in basic terms appropriate yet why are united statesA. Shy? Its now not helping in any appreciate i consistently think undesirable while each and each individual starts blushing for no objective and awkward silences and stuttering, oh gosh, it makes me nervous too! And im now not shy, in basic terms think undesirable for the guy or woman, bc..Theres no objective for all that! in basic terms you ought to be as spontanuous as achieveable, ok? and that i'm hoping ur shyness is going away as quickly as u get to understand a guy or woman greater? rather i see shyness as a undertaking. the undertaking of not being accredited or loved by way of way of somebody else. inspite of the undeniable fact that u are in sort n ladies evaluate ur attractive. So no concern pal staggering good fortune! You adult adult males have a delightful date jointly! ;)
2016-10-19 22:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by porix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure! People that tell you to wait for him are crazy, what if he never gets the nerve to ask you out? Totally ask him out! My junior year I asked a guy to prom and he told me that he would have never gotten the nerve but said he really wanted to ask me. Go for it, it takes a lot of nerve but you can do it!
2007-03-25 12:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by JoAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they have an old fashioned thing at your school called a Sadie Hawkins dance then it's ok. Otherwise he'll think you are cheap, easy, desperate, and that will be the last date with him.
Try that with his rival, and he'll ask you out for sure.
2007-03-25 12:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by Credit Expert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. I've never actually asked a woman out on a date. They always have asked me, and I just pick and choose the best European women out there.
2007-03-25 12:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by Kermit renversant de corporation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask him and theres nothing wrong with that. Some guys like making the first move, but they never take a hint! :-) I have done it before and I would do it again.
2007-03-25 12:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HECK YEA Men are shy as women are so you never know he might like you to.Then both of you would be waiting for along time.I know i would be flater if some lady would ask me out!
2007-03-25 12:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by nice_gentle2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with it. i was gonna ask this one guy out till i learned he was a jr. since im only a freshman i decided against it.
2007-03-25 12:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can. =D When I asked my girlfriend out she told me a while later she was thinking about asking me. :]
2007-03-25 12:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋