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2007-03-25 12:14:59 · 17 answers · asked by %$outhern G 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

at one point...she told me that she thought about cheating.....can you lose love for someone that you really love, if they are gone off to college, but come back almost every weekend? she say that she is......she now is gone out with her friends to walk the track ....she say.....I don't know we been together for a year. it's hard to determine

2007-03-25 12:26:39 · update #1

17 answers

well you wouldnt know!

unless you:

-saw her!
-heard her
-someone told you
-you saw proof on her mobile
-what she said may not add up
-shes acting guilty
-SHE TELLS YOU!

I use to have the same problems everytime i left the house i was a bunny boiler! lol. a year later i find out he did cheat he did lie!

to be honest the only WAY YOUR TRULLY GOING TO KNOW IS IF SHE TELLS YOU!

ask her out straight, saying you dont believe her you cant trust her and unless you get a REAL HONEST ANSWER then youll have no choice for your own sanity to end the relationship!

shell have no choice but to take you serious! but make it clear then you will be as understanding as possible to thr truth!SHE MAY SURPRISE YOU AND TELL YOU SHES CHEATED OR ANYTHING... imagen the worst... if she tells you the worst except it! and take some time to think what you want!

good luck!

p.s this worked for me it took me 2 and half years to get my man to be honest!

2007-03-25 12:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by SWANNY AND SNUGGLES! 3 · 0 1

If she becomes distant by not talking to you as much, brushing you off, getting into more arguments than usual. These are a few signs. The argument thing is an effort to make you break up with her so she doesn't have to feel guilty. Also, if she seems sad at you leaving and then all of a sudden becomes really excited and giggly for no apparent reason. Another way to know if she's cheating is if you try to call her and she won't pick up or it goes straight to voicemail. That means she's with the other guy and is either ignoring your calls or has turned her phone off to avoid you. If she has hinted about breaking up...if she shows no interest in coming to see your or having you come see her. I could go on...

2007-03-25 19:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by cudancegirl1 2 · 1 0

Common sense tells you that you need to trust her. A relationship will not work if there isn't trust. Love just isn't enough. If you really are worried, have some buddies look after her. Not 24/7 but just so you know there's nothing going on. Sometimes you might want to randomly come to visit her without warning. That way she won't have time to hide anything if she is cheating.

2007-03-25 19:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie M 2 · 1 0

1. Less time talking to you
2. Trying to be too open. If a woman starts telling you more information then normal then it is because she trying to cover her ***
3. If she suddenly stops caring in arguments.
But allow me to offer one bit of advice:
If you are going to be with her then you need to trust her! Love has though you can't be hurt!

2007-03-25 19:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

use some of your friends to keep an eye out on her while your gone, show up unexpectedly some time from college other things like that

2007-03-25 19:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by James 4 · 1 0

if you have to ask you'll never know

dump her now
b/c if you were truly in love the thought wouldn;t cross your mind unless you're too insecure and paranoid, and with that being said you're probably not ready for a relationship

2007-03-25 19:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by drinkmoreovaltine 1 · 1 0

Well, I believe intuition is your answer. In other words you have answered you own question.
But why worry, you have plenty of girls to choose from if you need to replace her.
Live life to its fullest and stop worrying, you cannot stop fate, if it is going to happen no amount of information is going to stop it.

2007-03-25 19:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by knowitall 3 · 1 0

i think this is one of those, its time to part ways. you are young and if things are meant to be in the future, then it will happen, but for now you both should put your education first and continue living

2007-04-02 09:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by misselizabee 2 · 0 0

if youve lost trust she either is or will be soon, either there's a reason you lost trust or she'll pick up on your attitude and cheat anyways cause your acting insecure

2007-03-25 19:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0 1

call cheaters or maybe talk 2 her about it theres is always question just ask her to answer in great detail

2007-03-25 19:18:16 · answer #10 · answered by Ally Mciver 2 · 0 1

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