How do I stop myself from running away from myself & my feelings 4 my best guy mate? We met last yr thru a store he manages & I usually shopped in. Overtime we became close & we share everything with each other, hes always happy 2 see me, like he cud be serving a customer & id walk in & he'd ignore them & be like hey with a huge smile on his face & id say hi back. We always have long conversations instore only & talk about anything & everything, customers cud be walking in & out & we'd stl be talking away.Hes 28 & I'm 20 going on 21. We're both single. Ive been feeing like this 4 about a year now, But ive been trying 2 run from my feelings 4 him hoping that it'll go away cos Ive never felt like this b4.
Anyways how do I stop myself from running? He turns my world upside down, he makes me feel safe & everything & he shares evrything wit me & over the time we've known each other we've become close m8s,he makes me happy,he always asks 4 my opinion\say in things.....
2007-03-25 12:11:47 · 5 answers · asked by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ive never had a bond like this b4 with a guy. & he always likes 2 hear what I have 2 say, I love how he remembers the little things I say, it just goes 2 show he does listen 2 me, he has told me he likes talking to me & I love talking 2 him 2. I love everything about him.
Anyways.... guys and gurls any advice?
2007-03-25 12:14:37 · update #1
If you're afraid you'll run then your past is haunting you.
Do yourself the biggest kindness ever and go around or over your wall - learn to love.
Embrace what you have now - enjoy your present; as time passes people learn love and sometimes lose love. It's all a beautiful process.
If you have it - truly have it - then lose yourself in it. Don't worry for a moment what the outcome will be or you'll miss the best part.
:)
2007-03-25 12:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Candy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's great that you met someone with whom you connect. It sounds like you want to take the relationship to the next level, but to do so would leave you vulnerable. When someone is vulnerable they can be hurt. The problem is, if you open up to "Mr. Right", will he take advantage of you. The only way to find out is to test him. You can devise your own "test". It may be talking about your future together and see if he shares your dreams or not. I hope you get some ideas from this. Good luck!
2007-03-25 12:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by 2smart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he does all those stuff then he likes/loves you a lot. maybe you should just sit back and see what happens. maybe your'e just afraid of how you feel and bout getting hurt.
take the risk =D
2007-03-25 12:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by Uhmmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why has he not asked you out?
That should stop you. Think about it.
2007-03-25 12:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by Credit Expert 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
accept your happiness.
2007-03-25 12:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by cheeser 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋