2007-03-25 12:04:52 · 16 answers · asked by katy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I dont think thats a good idea. try and change the priest. dont cast shadows over your wedding day
2007-03-25 12:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by nethnee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the priest, depends on your fiance. 'First hot love' could mean a lot. If you had a sexual relationship with him then never mind your fiance I think there are plenty of priests around and you should choose one different. If your Fiance knows he was not your first lover then you could tell him but surely he will think a long the same lines as why out of all the priests in the world you choose this one, even if it is the church you attend, there are plenty excuses to go to another church. However if 'First hot love' means a boyfriend/girlfried relationship as in little kiss and cuddle whilst at school or just after then that shouldn't matter, he probably didn't even realise he had a vocation then.
2007-03-26 03:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your town is there only one priest???
Find another priest. Your wedding day is suppose to be special. I think the both of you are going to remember the priest and I also think this first hot love is going to be in all the wedding pictures.
Do you really want to embarrass your self and your soon to be husband?
Pick someone else...
2007-03-25 12:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Gucci S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Import a different priest, girl. I've spent the last 17 years avoiding a priest who was the last boyfriend before my husband...
2007-03-25 12:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a different priest. This sounds like trouble.
2007-03-25 12:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by Moon Crystal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have nothing to hide why not tell him after all this is the man you will spend the rest of you life with, also there is the chance that some else might tell him first. then how would you feel.
2007-03-28 05:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by Granny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely find a different priest...first romances are stronger than you might think. I'll always remember mine.
2007-03-25 12:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by Erica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,because if he remembers you he just might tell your fiance and it's better for him to hear it from you than from him,and that just might ruin your marriage be for you get married you know what I'm saying!
2007-03-25 12:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Oh sounds like a recipe for disaster ! We never forget our first loves so I think you really need to find someone else to conduct the ceremony.
2007-03-27 04:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Isis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah tell him and if he dont like it then change your priest or change the church
2007-03-25 12:26:41 · answer #10 · answered by lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋