I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I hadn't been bugging her since she didn't want to talk to me anymore. We said hi occasionally, I thought things would be cool between us. I tried to talk to her. I said Hey how are you? She said nothing. I tried to talk about how she was helping with something (she was inactive at the moment). Still nothing. I told her I know we haven't talked in the longest time (I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back), but I only wanted us to be friends again. I couldn't bring myself to say I missed her because it seemed like she wasn't hearing me. She kept her back turned towards me, unlike when I saw her sneak so many glances at me this past year. She texted on her phone. She never even looked at me, never said a word. I wanted to say what I felt about her, but all my feelings about her besides "I love you" wouldn't come up. I wanted to say I love you. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else.
2007-03-25 11:59:56 · 6 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I'll just see you around." She talked to everyone in the hall but me. I left her. I'm wondering what should I do for her birthday next week? I'm going to ask her friends what kind of gifts she likes. I think I probably should just tell her happy birthday to show that I remember. Maybe I shouldn't even say that. After that, I'm forgetting all about her because ain't nothin ever gon change.
I'll ask this in the form of a poll. Should I-
#1-Buy her a birthday gift and hand it to her
#2-Just say happy birthday to her (she's turning 17 and I'm 17)
#3-Completely ignore her
If I completely ignored her (which she did to me this year on my birthday and she knew it was my birthday) wouldn't that just be being immature or doing evil for evil? Even though I think that's what I have to do.
2007-03-25 12:01:19 · update #1
Today I thought and I realized that in the last month of us talking, when she got angry at me, I had not done A THING to her. I was changing what she said I was doing wrong. Below are extra details which aren't required reading for answering the question.
2007-03-25 12:02:24 · update #2
EXTRA DETAIL-NO NEED TO READ THIS TO ANSWER THE QUESTION: I've been hurt before by crushes every single time, but this is the first time I've fallen in love. I learned something though; just because a girl seems like she has everything I've been looking for, doesn't mean she's the girl for me. She could change up anytime. I'm never leaving myself open for getting hurt by falling in love again, because I'm not giving her my heart until she earns it. This is the first time I've fallen in love but it's the last straw, the last time I try to be someone for somebody. Like my name says from this song, I got this Icebox where my heart used to be.
2007-03-25 12:03:50 · update #3
EXTRA DETAIL-NO NEED TO READ THIS TO ANSWER THE QUESTION: When I liked her, she said she had liked me first. Then I asked her how she liked me the next day and she said she didn't know. It wasn't until a month later she said she didn't like me, but I really liked her. The girl I fell in love with was a really shy, sweet, funny, beautiful girl. At least, I always felt she was beautiful even though everyone around me said she's just alright and she's no one special. I have this false, ridiculous small ray of hope that maybe one day she'll talk to me but I just don't want to try anymore.
2007-03-25 12:04:22 · update #4
aww honey! this girl does not deserve you!!! fall love with me please! lol id love my man to do all this for me its so nice of you!
i think option 3!
this girl does not give you anything back she has ignored you and acted very immature just becuase you have feelings for her!
dont waste an more time money or effort on her! spend it on some that will appreciate it like me lmao! (just teasing lol)
if you start ignoring her shell notice you more cuase shell wonder why you know longer try with her! even when she does eventually try with you just ignore it!
SHES NOT WORTH IT! I know you think she is because your in love but love is blind!
I hope you take my advise and even try for a short while to move on!
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2007-03-25 12:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by SWANNY AND SNUGGLES! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you do not probable choose to purchase her something in any respect. in case you're feeling as in case you ought to bypass away her with some particular techniques nevertheless, you may make an effort to p.c.. out a birthday card with the coolest sentiment which you're feeling, sign it properly (on the grounds which you're cooling it) and placed it in the mail. you're unfastened to bypass on and you ought to.
2016-10-19 22:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by porix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be you. If she doesn't want a relationship respect that. Don't be mean . Keep being very nice.I wouldn't buy her a gift. Maybe a happy birthday wish. good luck.
2007-03-25 12:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by sheree_98133 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
### 33333!!!! it wouldn't be immature if you genuinely didn't care and dude you need to stop caring. she doesn't like you and unrequitted love will tear you apart!!
2007-03-25 12:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are on the verge of stalking....
2007-03-25 13:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by beenabytch 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be brave
2007-03-25 12:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by B rabit 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋