My bf is a jobless film maker,he won't work in anything else,should i ncourage him 2 work in some other thing?

Question

We want to move in together but I fear about my financial future, I want to save money and live comfortably...he doesn't want to work in other stuff but film making cause its his dream, and I dont want to destroy it but i don't wanna be poor either... what should I do? -We love each other a lot-

Answer 1

Let me get the tactical situation straight in my head a minute here...You love him enough to become his meal ticket...but he does not love you enough to set aside his film making fantasies long enough to contribute to whatever wants you may have...like food, housing, and electricity...and you are what... wondering if you should be doing his laundry as well?

You should be looking for a new boy friend...someone who will actually treat you with a bit of respect...what you have now is more like a pet.

Answer 2

What ever you do, until he is gainfully employed and making it on his own, do not give him money or move in with him or get engaged to him. It seems like maybe he is not trying so hard, because he has you to fall back on. If it really is his dream to do this, then he would be working his a@@ off trying to make it, but it doesn't sound like he is making much of an effort at all. Just remember, dreams are nice, but they dont pay the bills, or put food on the table!

Answer 3

tell him how u feel. then say can u at least get a job untill ur dream comes true. he can follow his dream of film making later in life... right now he should be w/ u and solid financialy. or say ur gonna leave him and say good luck getting some1 else w/ ur financial situation.