i think ive fallen for my best friend, and even though she has a bf i still really like her
plus he is going to college next year and she is a sophomore in high school with me next year, we all ways hang out and we are really close i just want to know what y'all think
2007-03-25 11:51:46 · 22 answers · asked by aggieman12002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe, maybe not. It's completely up to you. You can take the chance on things working out wonderfully, or you can take the chance on something going wrong and possibly losing a very good friendship. It's all what you want to do. If you don't take a chance, you might regret it and always wonder the possibilities (or "what might have been") for the rest of your life.
2007-03-25 11:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by kasey1720 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG have I run into a lot of you in the college town I work in.Only it's been all females with this problem.Your the first guy I've run into with it.
Answer No.Because when you break up with the person there usually friends with your friends as well and y'all start talking trash behind each others back and then nobodies talking anymore.
2007-03-25 18:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think thats the best because u have to have that friendship 1st but its if u want to cross that line cause if u do get into a relationship with a friend and if it doesnt work out to well u may not be friends anymore a more intimate relationship is very different its more emotions and feelings u will notice things u didnt care about b4 but u now care about cause she is just not ur friend anymore she is ur woman plus she got a man please if its meant to be then let it but not force it
2007-03-25 19:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by mahoganysoul28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can go 50-50. You take a chance on ruining the friendship if you confess your feelings for her, however if you don't reveal your feelings for her you might miss out on something special if she has the same feelings for you. I'd say take a chance and express your feelings for her about 2 months after her b/f goes to college. Just make sure that you're "there for her" without smothering her. Good luck my friend...good luck!
2007-03-25 18:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by six3x 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is friendship set on fire, but if she has a bf then you are going to get burned. Let her know when she is single! Be a real friend and don't complicate her life.
2007-03-25 18:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah the distance thing will suck but usually best friends are good couple because you all ready know alot about each other and enjoy each others company
2007-03-25 18:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is kinda weird because i went through this EXACT same thing last year. But i told her i liked her and i wanted to try to make it work but it didnt and our friendship has never been the same. Im still in love with her but i would give anything to have our friendship back. dont give it up.
2007-03-25 18:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going out with my bestfriend, we have for more than two years now. I think it is going great because we know eachother well and know our intrests and secrets. We understand eachother more than anyone else does.
I think bestfriends make the best couple!!!
2007-03-25 18:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, usually.
starting out as friends is one of the best ways to start a relationship.
2007-03-25 18:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by LITTLE GREEN GOD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best Friends do make great couples but if she is in love with some one else you mite lose a Friend if you try to soon. when he leaves get her drunk and go for it lol
2007-03-25 18:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋