2007-03-25 11:51:01 · 19 answers · asked by lilabs324 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it is okay. People think sexuality is something that develops when people are18 or older but we are all born sexual creatures. When I was 12 I wanted to have sex but I knew I was not mature enough to handle the possible consequences so I waited until I was older. It is perfectly fine for children to have sexual desires but sometimes acting on those sexual desires can get you into complicated situations. I say put off the actual act for right now and find different ways to pleasure yourself such as masturbating which is normal and healthy for all girls to do.
I am sure you will get responses from other posters telling you it is wrong but they have either never been a 12-year-old girl or forget what it was like to be one.
2007-03-25 12:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by Marlo J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though she might be curious about having sex, I don't think it's right for a 12 year old to have sex (boy or girl). It's just too young. Having sex comes with more responsiblities than just getting your needs met and meeting the needs of your partner. Both individuals should think about pregnancy, STDs, and emotions before having sex. I hope this answers your question.
2007-04-02 06:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by bluegirl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! You should be thinking about school, makeup and high school. 12 years old is too young. There is so much emotional, physical and you have to worry about getting pregnant and sexually transmitted diseases. Save yourself for that special someone. You need to feel special, loved and not used as thing to get a quick fix. Your body is young and you need to grow up first. You are still a child. Having sex doesn't make you a grown-up. Talk to your parents about this. Be careful!
2007-04-01 14:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by beaddiva 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK for you wanting to , but doing it is another thing. You are way to young. Have you ever thought about the possiblity of you ending up pregnant at 12 and not really having a future like your other friends. Wait, believe me its worth it.
2007-04-02 07:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by God Bless America 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to have those urges. I started when I was 15. I think you'd enjoy it alot more if you waited until then or later. It's okay to fantasize. That is healthy. For any boy or man to want to have sex with a 12 year old girl is not right. Think about that. Masterbation is good. You get to know yourself before you expect to have a guy please you. I know this sounds kinda crazy. Honestly. Take this advice to heart.
2007-04-01 16:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by starbucks4jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to think about sex, but having sex at 12 is WAY too young.
2007-03-25 12:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Nicole*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COMING FROM A PARENT THAT HAS AN ALMOST 12yr OLD IN JULY SHE ALSO START HER MENSTRUATION 2months AGO.MY DAUGHTER AND I TALK ABOUT EVERYTHING.I TELL HER THE TRUTH ABOUT LIFE I DO NOT LIE TO HER.I FEEL IF I DO NOT TELL HER THEN SOMEONE ELSE IS GOING TO TELL HER SOMETHING WRONG.MY FAMILY SAY THAT I LET HER KNOW TOO MUCH INFORMATION.TIMES HAVE CHANGED AND AS LONG AS YOUR CHILD IS A HUMAN BEING SHE WILL THINK ABOUT SEX REASON BEING IT'S ON T.V AND THAT IS WHAT SHE'S SEEING.SHE HAS HORMONES AND THAT IS LIFE.JUST KEEP HER INFORMED OF THE REAL LIFE CONSEQUENCES.JUST KEEP TALKING TO HER NO MATTER WHAT.
2007-04-02 11:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by LADONNA W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 is way too young to even think about the emotional and physical changes that sex can bring to your life. Yes at that age you are experiencing many emotions and feelings, but it's far too young to get wrapped into the aspects that sex can bring.
2007-03-25 12:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sex at 12 is WAY too young but its ok to want it
2007-04-02 11:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only reason why you asked that qestion is because your not ready..... Understand this your mind may think that you are ready for sex... .... but your body is not ready for such a big change...
Deep down in your soul, you know you want to wait... why not wait aren't you worth it....
Should you feel loved and beloved instead of just for that moment.....
If you could see your-self with this person for about 3 years then your ready... if you can't then your worth waiting for....
Life is to short to make a mistake and worry about it for the rest if your life..... I can't live with myself when i've made such a stupid mistake that i could of changed...
My saying is live to laugh and love to live....
"Your the only one that knows that answer to that qestions"
2007-04-02 07:44:38 · answer #10 · answered by lapeachroses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋