I like this guy his name is james he is 19 and i am 16. He started dating my friend sarah... well she has the same name as me. Right now they having some problems cause he ex beated on her and he threated to beat him up..... childish fight but i can i=understand why he wants to. well she still loves her ex and i guess her ex still loves her cause of the fact he was to beat up james for dating her. Well right now my friend chris wants to hook me up with one of his friends... but i am worried i wont get over james... im so confused! I mean james calls me likes to talk to me flirts with me! we have kissed each like 15 time since febuary but since he started dating he has stopped.... shows he is loyal.. i like that! he is a really good friend.. and i dont want to hurt him in any way! i dunno what to do! Im trying to move on but you know the saying you can make a heart love somebody! well you make it unlove somebody etheir!
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2007-03-25 11:49:13 · 9 answers · asked by ~MommyLovesHerGirls~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well to add more to this he is single now and the girl he was dating dumped him because he reminded her too much of her ex and she still loves her ex even though he beated on her grrrr i hate love sometimes! but where would we be without out it i wonder. oh well now i am wondering if i have a chance or not he knows i like him and everything but i just dont know i need more clues i guess
2007-03-27 15:29:57 · update #1
You're not the only one confused..
Kill your friend, eliminate the enemies. Lol I'm just kidding..
When my friend dated this person I liked, we were all friends and all, I just told him not to brag about it to me. Now.. you might want to persuade.. James? that he won't get killed going out with you.
2007-03-25 11:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But, despite your heart, you can choose to be a good friend. Good friends are rare, and they are the ones who are there for you when romances fail. If you step on a friends to get a guy, it shows him that he has control over you and it shows her that you don't care about her or her feelings. Who will be there for you if things don't work out? Also, if James was kissing you, why didn't he ask you out then? Why is he with your friend Sarah instead? That seems suspicious to me; you may be better off moving on. Moving on doesn't necessarily mean jumping into a relationship either - if you still like James, using someone to help you get over him won't do you any good - and it's unfair to the person you've started seeing. Take some time to reconnect with yourself and think about what you do want - and what you don't want. You have to know yourself and be able to trust your instincts and motivations before you get into a romantic relationship. Good luck!
2007-03-25 11:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by amariune 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i will say is purely make an effort and in line with possibility issues will flow decrease back to everyday, besides the fact that that's not hassle-free because of fact as quickly as you go that line from friendship to relationship i think of it complicates your friendship much extra and then once you ruin up that's not hassle-free to easily be a chum to the different guy or woman for the reason which you have deeper thoughts in touch than in basic terms a chum.
2016-10-20 10:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not seem that the guy you like has much to do with you and it does not seem that you and him are in a real relationship, his lack of commitment shows that if he see what he likes he goes for it without cost. He is dating you friend, but your friend has not told you what she thinks because she thinks that she is getting lucky and wants to make you jealous. He is not worth much more effort, let him be with your friend and find you someone that you can share your feelings with and one that will be kind to you. There is going to be no chance that your friend will give this guy up anytime soon.
2007-03-25 12:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i didn't read your whole post but i'll tell you that 19 is too old for you, you'll be expected to "put out", and if you make a play for him you will have drama with your friend. Just wait it out, if he's hitting on you when he's with her, he'd probably do the same thing to you if you were with him. Focus on your studies, you're wasting your time.
2007-03-25 11:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date someone Else for a long time and you'll slowly get over him.be patient trust me,I've been in that situation
2007-03-25 11:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by B rabit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him, leave him with sarah if u c that they can b comatching.
but if u c that he might like u as more then friend say it frank 2 him
2 b frank, is te shortist way 2 man's heart
2007-03-25 11:56:24 · answer #7 · answered by mega.head 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 16... do you have to make this decision right now ?
2007-03-25 11:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is so confusing? He is dating your friend.
2007-03-25 11:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by Eisbär 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋