kk well i go out with this boi and i like him a lot but i have never kissed anyone before and i am scared to be like a bad kisser. and i dont know how to kiss either.. and i really dont know what i should do and i feel bad cause we have been goin out for a long time and he tells me he wants to kiss me but i just dont know how.. what should i do..... and i cant tell him that i havent kissed anyone either.. plz help
2007-03-25 11:43:06 · 9 answers · asked by sara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gently kiss him. That's a good way for the first time. Nothing major that you have to worry about knowing how to do.....just a sweet little kiss. From there on you won't need instruction.....it'll come natural!
2007-03-25 11:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by lostjane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down first. It's always hard for everyone with their first kiss. The most important thing is that if you are ready for a kiss. You boyfriend should understand that if you're not ready for that kind of thing. If you are then tell him that your scared. It's important for your relationship to be honest. Maybe he can help you out. Others just start off slowly and you'll get use to it. It's like an trait that you've never used but when needed it'll come to play automatically. Don't worry about it too much.
Hope it makes sense or help?.
2007-03-25 11:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by thisxlozer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're not ready for kissing. I started at 8, but that was me.
There's really not that much to it. You hold each other closely, snuggle, and put your lips together. Sucking on the lower or upper lip feels good, as does running your tongue over his teeth (and likewise).
2007-03-25 11:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do what comes naturally, ull learn as you get more expereicned. noone starts out being amazing at kissing. you learn with the people you care about and the awkwardness can be fun stories to talk about later.
2007-03-25 11:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by skypilot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't learn to swim if you don't get in the water! You can't learn to kiss if you don't try. Just watch how they kiss in the movies and start from there. You just pucker your lips, let him put his nest to yours and proceed from there.
2007-03-25 11:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be brave and tell him. Then if he really likes u he will make u feel comfortable - not embarrassed. Just tell him and everything will be ok
2007-03-25 11:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by bre l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you just told us...if he is worth anything he will show you...its a great compliment to be someones first kiss..think about it..you will never forget him/her
2007-03-25 11:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say i might be bad at this but here and kiss him
2007-03-25 11:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by i love you <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. There is only one way to learn, experience.
2007-03-25 11:46:35 · answer #9 · answered by msi_cord 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋