I love my boyfriend beyond extreme. Hes asked me to marry him so im engaged. Im 15 bit still. I am a good student and a good girl mostly. I just wanted to know if i should do this with him. Weve been talking for a while and he said he wont unless im ready to. Help Any ideas?
2007-03-25 11:38:04 · 13 answers · asked by lil_thing00 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should stay a virgin till you're married.
God intended it to be that way.
But many, MANY people abuse that.
And God looks down on those people.
You don't just give your virginity to just anybody.
It is the best present you can give your future husband.
It is you... it is all of you.
If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.
Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.
I am a virgin. I have a boyfriend of 13 months that I am completely in love with. He's asked me several times to marry him... so we're practically engaged. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
2007-03-25 11:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, if you need to ask or think about it, you're probably not ready. I'm 15 as well and I've been dating this guy for about a month and I know I'm not ready, but I also know he's the guy I want to lose my virginity to. And I can't imagine being engaged at my age. If I were you, I'd take things slow.
And you say you have good grades? What a waste those would be if you become a mother before you're out of high school. Your life that you have always dreamed about would go down the drain because you'd have to do everything for your baby. I suggest watching the music video of the song 'There Goes My Life' by Kenny Chesney. It's about two teenagers, with hopes and dreams, but she ends up pregnant and their whole lives change. You can watch the video here: http://youtube.com/watch?v=lGY1lRw_k6k
Hope I helped :)
2007-03-25 11:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by x_tragiclovesong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today's 15 yr olds aren't mature enough to handle the repercussions that can come from having sex...wait a few years.
Sex not occur before:
1. You are ready to deal with a pregnancy, should it occur
2. You are ready to deal with an STD, should it occur
3. When you know how a woman can become pregnant (all the ways it can occur)
4. When you know what the various STDs are and how they are transmitted and how to help protect against them
5. When you are ready to insist your partner wear a condom
6. When you are on a reliable form of birth control and using it properly
7. When you are ready to deal with any emotional issues that may come from being intimate with another person
Until you've got those things covered, you should not have sex.
2007-03-25 11:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you were a good girl you wouldn't be asking this question and wouldn't be getting married at 15. Yeah sure ruin your reputation as a "good girl" Just make sure your doing the right thing.
2007-03-25 11:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by erinintn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 15 and that is too young. im 16 and i am gonna wait till the right time which should be marriage or with the person you do really intend to marry. at 15 your just having fun and dont really mean anything. so dont do it trust me.
2007-03-25 11:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you think your ready for sex ? I mena your still young yet..and if you want to wait a couple more years until you mature thats up to you. But don't do cause you feel the need to..do it when it feels right to you. If you think the timing is right go for it..if not wait.
2007-03-25 11:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 15 and additionally you prefer to get married on your boyfriend? What have you ever been snorting or are you Amish? you're of course no longer emotionally waiting or responsible sufficient to have intercourse so do no longer!
2016-12-08 11:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by galle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are engaged, then why not just wait til your wedding night. Are you going to get married soon? Do you live in Utah? You could get married next week if you do.
2007-03-25 11:44:23 · answer #8 · answered by Eisbär 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think you should to tell you the truth...cause sometimes that just makes the relationship less interesting, and he might loose interest besides you are too young still ...wait it out dont rush
2007-03-25 11:43:09 · answer #9 · answered by Juan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre still young,but it case you cant help it anymore because you love him,think about what might happen and all the risks or consequences
2007-03-25 11:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by andrew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋