This guy is only in the sixth grade and I'm really scared for him. It's not because I just don't like being around smokers (which is kinda true;its a bad habit) but I am afraid something will happen to him!I really don't want to just not like him anymore, I want to help, but I'm just not sure how.
HELP ME HELP HIM!
Thank you for your concern
2007-03-25 11:35:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg. this guy sounds exactly like someone i knew when i was in 6th grade. the guy i knew changed alot because of all the week and cigarettes. hes not a good guy, and chances are he never will be. i tried to stop this guy, but he just got mad, our friendship has never really been the same. i dont smoke or do drugs. and you shouldent eaither. it changes your life in a really bad way. i know that you feel bad for him and you wana help him, but its hard. if your not his gf or a really close friend then you shouled bother. it will just lead for troble. leave him alone and let him do his pot. in 10 years youll be happy you diddent date him.
good luck(:
2007-03-25 11:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sixth grade is way too young to be dating. You can be friendly with this guy at school and maybe try to give him some pointers to help him go in the right direction.
In no way should you go with him away from school. Smoking weed is illegal and a lot of innocent people have gotten in trouble just by being with the wrong people at the wrong time.
Don't think if you care enough you can change him. Ain't gonna happen. He has to be the one that wants to change.
Good luck.
2007-03-25 18:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by p00756 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Earlier in the year, I fell hard for a boy who smoked weeds and took crystal meth, so i understand. I liked him for who he was, too, not just because all the smoking made him look ''hardcore'' and awesome, because that image is so superficial. This is hard advice, but: like him from a distance. You don't want to be involved in this lifestyle, not for him, not for anyone.
2007-03-25 18:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by Erica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the problem girls have with boys: when something is bugging the girl, she doesnt say anything! Then she expects this guy to know anyway. The best thing you can do is TELL HIM about your concerns. If you tell him, and he doesnt care enough to stop his self destructive behavior, then he wasnt worth it anyway.
2007-03-25 18:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by Vesentine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can like him all you want, just don't get involved with him...talk to a teacher or school counselor about his behavior...it needs to be addressed now and hopefully it can be corrected before it becomes something more serious.
2007-03-25 18:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see what everyones stressing over... Smoking weed isn't actually that bad for you, and telling a counselor or teacher isn't gunna make him like you.
2007-03-25 18:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by Mitchell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grape him right away and don't u let go him .that's if he has the same feeling towards u as well..About his habbit one day he'll quite smoking with ur help .
2007-03-25 18:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by ABBEY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg 6th grade. well i would just talk to him and show him how bad it is to smoke like get info from the web and print it out to show him and tell him that you like him a lot and think he shouldnt hurt himself like that
2007-03-25 18:40:10 · answer #8 · answered by i love you <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too young for smoking.......write an anonymous letter to his parents and slip it in their cars......in the letter threaten them that if they don't take any action u will go to the child services.
2007-03-25 18:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by Pro Bush 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's only in sixth grade?! you if nobody stoping him and you care about him it's up to to stop him think about his family and yourself you'll regret not helping him.
2007-03-25 18:41:11 · answer #10 · answered by Bridget 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋