well, im a very jealous person.so im just making sure of something..
Just because your bf spends time w/ other girls it doesnt mean he likes 'em right? cuz one of my friends he has known sicne they were born and his granma and mom r good friends w/ her mom and they always go over there..i dont intend to get jealous but i do..so like i said i was just making sure thta even though they r together alot it doesnt mean he likes her right?
2007-03-25 11:22:01 · 10 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
right. you gotta accept he had friends before he started seeing you and cannot be expected to give them up now that he is dating you.
2007-03-25 11:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by heather l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because they are friends doesn't mean it's romantic. If your bf has ever been romantically involved with this girl then that's a different story. If they've grown up together and have that brotherly/sisterly bond, have some faith and leave it be.
Not all guys and girls are attracted to each other.
It depends how much time he is spending with the other girl too. If your bf is spending more time with this other girl than you, that's not so good. It sounds like you need to have a talk with your bf and ask him about it. As long as you don't accuse him of anything, you should be able to have a civil conversation about it. Good relationships must have good communication...
2007-03-25 18:30:41 · answer #2 · answered by stardust23716 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your bf has a friend of the opposite sex doesn't mean he likes her in any way other than a friendship. If he mentions that they hang out or brings you along sometimes(since she is your friend also) it means he's comfortable around both of you at the same time, which means there's probably nothing fishy goin on. It's natural to be jealous, but keep in mind there are wholesome friendships between people of different genders. Obviously I don't know the whole situation, and you should always listen to rhyme and reason.
2007-03-25 18:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sounds like your boyfriend and your friend would be like family to each other and not in a romantic way , dont be jealous it will only turn him away , also if he does end up playing up behind your back then that is not the type of person you should want to be with because you could never trust him and they usually end up doing it again i know it sounds hard but honestly do you want to be with someone that is a two timer, your boyfriend sounds ok he is just friends with your friend if he wanted to be with her wouldnt he already be with her he has chosen you , i wish you all the best
2007-03-25 18:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way!!! I think he has a lot in common with this girl and they seem to be good friends. i don't think u should b jealous because if they knew each other 4 such a long time it might be weird if they dated...Like a brother and sister relationship not boyfriend & girlfriend.
â¥LOTS OF LOVEâ¥
2007-03-25 20:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to accept the fact that if you want to have a relationship, you can't lock him up. I have some very close friends (who are girls) that I have known for years and years and I couldn't survive without them, but I wouldn't think about dating them.
2007-03-25 18:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by Simon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good. A lot of girls don't understand this concept. it's good that you've figured it out. Guys have girl friends and also have girlfriends. Unless he does anything inappropriate with her, then you're in good shape.
2007-03-25 18:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by zanyacorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly.. I have a female best friend who phones me to go for a few pints and I tell my G.F that Im going out with her for a few pints. my g.f knows the story and has no probs with it..
2007-03-25 18:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he may be going over there cause his mom is making him go with her. Just ask him, if he says no then believe him.
2007-03-25 18:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel you... ima jealous person as well.. i wanna change but i cant help it.. n yeah it doesnt necisarily mean he likes her.. theyre jus good friends.. but ya.. just ask him to be really sure
2007-03-25 18:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by MiK3 =D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋