I'm a highschooler who likes a girl. Shes a sophmore, but there is a problem. She has a boyfriend that is in college. The boyfriend is a good friend of my brothers and I am pretty good friends with him too. But I have liked this girl for awhile, and they never see eachother. I know the right thing to do would be to back off, but I can't do that.. its not that easy. what I have been doing is just flirting with her pretty much everyday and just things like that and I think it is working. My real question is what I should do? should I keep trying? or should I back off?
2007-03-25 11:02:39 · 6 answers · asked by Dunno 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can get her to go out with you, what makes you think another guy wouldn't be able to do the same thing after awhile. If you want her to be your girlfriend, it's better not to try to pull her away from her current bf. Just be there as her friend. Let her know you could be interested, but respect that she already has a boyfriend.
She's young enough that her attention span is likely to dwindle with the boyfriend's absence. And, in college, he'll be learning new things; meeting new people; and will likely grow in ways that she won't understand.
Just be patient. And let it happen. If you push it, you'll never be able to trust her. And if she is trustworthy, she may never be able to trust you.
2007-03-25 11:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by Biff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No question: back off. You'll keep your friend and your manly honor. Besides, you wouldn't want a girl that flirts with other guys behind your back, would you?
2007-03-25 18:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by Yesugi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty is the best policy? Talk to your friend ask him his intention with this girl .Is he at all serious about her does he
neglect her is he faithful. is he enjoying the role of big fish in a small pond.
If it turns out he is in love with her respect it .It may be things are not all that serious between the two.
If its just a casual thing to him do her a favor show her how she deserves to be treated.
2007-03-25 18:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by ____ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There you go... you've answered your own question. Back off is the action you need to take. You don't want to be called names and you don't want others to do the same to you by trying to flirt with your girfriend.
2007-03-25 18:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would do was back off and keep flirting. and then admit to her that they never see each other and that you and her always do but don't keep bugging her about it.
2007-03-25 18:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by Aycilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back off, wait till shes done with college guys IF she is, if you dont back off you may have physical issues to settle it.
2007-03-25 18:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋