I felt really bad for a lady who was in church with her daughter and they both looked clean and everything but the mother had leaked blood through her pants and she had khakis on.
Would you have said something?
2007-03-25 11:02:20 · 12 answers · asked by crazy2003mama 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Yes, I would tell her. I am sure she would be embarrassed, but grateful to know so she could cover it before others saw it too.
2007-03-25 11:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ terry g ♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you a guy? if you are it could be awkward, but you can tell your wife or gf to tell her. I would difinitely tell her. Just the other day a lady came to pick up her professional photo shoots and I told her that her fly was open. She thanked me for it. I know I would want someone to tell me so I don't walk around humiliating more of myself. Just the right thing to do. Atleast to me, it is.
2007-03-25 11:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by heavenlyours2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would lean forward when she sat down and whisper to her. If I had something to offer her (long jacket, sweater to tie at her waist) I would or at the very least offer to be a shield for the walk out of the church.
2007-03-25 11:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lady E 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're a girl, tell her! It'd be too awkward if a guy would tell a woman this, but the acceptable thing to do is to tell her quickly and quietly. She'll be embarrassed, but probably glad that you didn't let her walk around like that the whole time!
2007-03-25 11:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If i first noticed it as she stood, as soon as she sat down i would lean forward and whisper in her ear what i saw and volunteer to walk behind her as a sort of shield, if she has no objections, to the bathroom entrance or away from the congregation.
2007-03-25 11:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by ann t 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh how awful! I probably would have told her that it was hardly noticeable but that she must have gotten her period. By the time she got to the bathroom and saw how bad it was she could have just told herself that it got that bad on the way to the bathroom. But ya - I would have told her... I'd be grateful to anyone that would say something to me.
2007-03-28 23:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by THATgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you`re a lady YES!! I wouldn`t want everyone to see my period stained pants. Besides she`ll leak everywhere, it is a health issue.Be kind and considerate when you mention it to her.Would you want everyone to see you in that situation?
2007-03-25 12:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by lost2day 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would have told her. At least that way she could try to do something to hide it or leave. Ive been in a similar situation and no one told me and I was mortified. I would much rather someone tell me than to let me continue to embarrass myself.
2007-03-29 10:08:28 · answer #8 · answered by jdeerchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I would definitely tell her. I would tell her in her ear though. That's looking out for another because I would hate to come home and wonder how long it was there or even worse - some kid yells "hey mommie, what's that red stuff on her pants?"
2007-03-25 11:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by Sasha C 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. If I had been in her shoes, I'd have just died! It is better to be a little embarassed (by having one person tell you) than a ton embarassed (not knowing and everyone seeing). She would be grateful to you, I know I would be.
2007-03-25 11:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by dreamer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋