I'm in college right now and over winter break I decided to go on an date with a girl from my school. We went to dinner and a movie. She is fairly cute so I kind of liked her. I told her when we got back to school we should hang out more. She said okay and we did. We started talking to each other on the phone too. Then I realized that she was really wierd and not for me. She kept telling me about her weird dreams, mostly sexual, that included random people she knew, some of my friends, both guys and girls. i realized that she was antisocial and extremely paranoid. I decided I did not want to see her anymore, i stopped answering her calls but I just can't seem to avoid her. She keeps ending up in my room on fridays, without my help. In order to get to my room there is a series of gates and doors she has to find a way thorugh. She is kindy of creeping me out. my friends just think she is funny. she has no other friends so i dont know what to do, but i cant keep her around.
2007-03-25 11:01:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her to give you your space.
2007-03-25 11:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You really have gotten yourself in abig mess! Well, there are two ways to solve the problem. You can 1) Just tell her exactly how you feel and you don't want to see her anymore (but in a nice way of course. All girls have feelings!) or 2) Leave her subtle hints and continue to ignore her a bit more openly than before. I hope things turn out well!
2007-03-25 18:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by twinkles_starlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for not falling for her. That takes a bit of strength.
Not to overlook the obvious, you're telling her not to come over, right?
You've got to tell her that you're not interested in her romantically, and you don't want to hang out, and of course ask her to please stop coming over uninvited.
If she continues, then tell her off and say that you'll call the cops if she trespasses on your property again.
If she continues after that, call the cops.
Maybe you should inform your school counselor of this girl. Maybe they can somehow hook up counseling for her.
2007-03-25 18:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her in the nicest way possible that your not interested in her. Perhaps you could tell her that you have a girlfriend and she doesn't want me chilling with some other girl and break it off that way as to not hurt her feelings. Its a hard thing to do.
Good luck =)
2007-03-25 18:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help her find new friends. she odviously likes and trusts you. hey, the coolest things come in odd packages. maybe one day you might need her. weird is good sometimes. just dont throw her away. make sure she has other people to hang with too. more friends. just cause shes differant doesnt mean she isnt cool.-morden
2007-03-25 18:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends think she's funny, and you think she's cute, it shouldn't be too hard for you to fix her up with the right guy. That'll be easier when you're seeing someone different.
2007-03-25 18:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by Yesugi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how about really giving her some great sex and then telling her she is not very good at it, that normally turns of a lady.
2007-03-25 18:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by hotlisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but the only way to get rid of her is to hurt her, i mean verbally.This is bad and i wouldn`t do it this way, but this works instantly.
2007-03-25 18:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by terracotta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes being rude is the only way to get people to get the hint.
2007-03-25 18:06:25 · answer #9 · answered by gina_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on man, just end it.
2007-03-25 18:09:21 · answer #10 · answered by rapidshareyo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋