at my school on valentines day you can order carnations for your "loved" one and theyll deliver it to them in homebase. well last year i got really close to this guy. but the feeling was mutual. he didnt return the love. well my seat was infront of him and when he got the carnation he read it and sat it down. one of his friends kept askin to see who it was from and tyler would tell him "no!you'll laugh!"so later he was playing with it like he didnt know what to do with it. on the paper i wrote "JUST FRIENDS?" so this year i bought him another and he ate it on the bus, was that cause he was just nervouse, cause i sit right beside him and he didnt say thankyou or nothin( i didnt expect a thankyou, i mean hes a guy he aint gonna thank me for a flower)some of my friends and family think it was rude of him not to get me one, cause everyone tells him i like him. so he knows i do. did he not send me one cause he didnt want to give me the wrong impression?
2007-03-25 11:01:29 · 21 answers · asked by redneck girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea he ius the weird type, so that kinda stuff is normall. i mean he ran into class the other day, jumped off of a chair, pretended to take out a lightsaber and hit his friend. it was halarious
2007-03-25 11:10:23 · update #1
he isnt mean, he is my best friend. the only reason he dont wanto go out wit me is cause it might ruin our friendship, cause if we break up we cant be friends.i had a friend ask him that last year and thats what he told her.
2007-03-25 11:12:33 · update #2
he sounds very immature & too afraid of any uncomfortable feelings
2007-03-25 11:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by ms_debbieg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, why did you waste the time or effort on that jerk?
Don't read into it, just drop it. its about him NOT you.
Expect more from friends and potential dates!
Waste no more time on this person! He is not into you for what ever lame reason and that's the reality you must deal with and move on! You would tell a friend the same thing right? Then listen to you own heart. ACTIONS speak louder than words and he is shouting "go away" to you.
If I was your school friend, I would have told you that last year, and advised you to direct your energy on someone else wonderful...like yourself.
You both sound very young, so take this life lesson early.
ONLY surround yourself with the best people, because YOU deserve the best! That goes for all areas of your life!
2007-03-25 11:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"did he not send me one cause he didnt want to give me the wrong impression?"
that's right. But he should have at least said thank you. He seems kind of rude and not the type of guy you should be with so move on and find some one who deserves your flowers!
He ate the flower to impress his friends or something like that!
2007-03-25 11:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He ate it because he was nervous. He's not comfortable with you giving him flowers, so don't do it anymore. He doesn't like you the way you like him.
He doesn't give you flowers because he's not interested, and doesn't want to give you the wrong impression. It sounds like he doesn't want to be "just friends" either, if that is even possible for a guy when he knows a girl likes him more than just friends.
2007-03-25 11:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm Chicky.. take the hint.. hes not interested in you in that particular romantic way.. Sorry.. but it likely true...
I'd feel wierded out by a female friend that was going psycho on my butt to that i wasnt interested in in that was as well..
Ad it wouldnt be the first flower i've ever eaten.. but at least i always said thank you.. (and I'm an Old foggy.. Been there done that.. more times than i can remember)
2007-03-25 11:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U sure he's not involved with another girl....and for 1 thing eating the flower was just plain silly. he should have gotten you one, and thanked u for the 1 u gave him if he was a gentlemen.
2007-03-25 11:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess its not mutual coz he never reacted nor gave importance what you feel. Neither talk to you and clarify something...
Now the reason why he ate flowers are:
He loves to eat flowers...LOL
or he don't someone see him having flowers and might be asked by someone whom it came from or in short, he don't wan to be bothered by someone.
2007-03-25 11:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by Arcie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did not send you one cause he's not interested in you. In fact the "no, you'll laugh" comment implies that you are an object of ridicule to him. Just go find someone else.
2007-03-25 11:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think his actions speak louder than words. He doesn't like you. Move on. There are other boys out there I am sure that would love you attention. I wouldn't be quite THAT obvious about it.
2007-03-25 11:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by SheRa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say but I dont think He likes you. You probably know that so stop buying him flowers.
2007-04-02 10:19:09 · answer #10 · answered by sostephanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wouldnt send you one because he does not want to develop a relationship and the reason he ate it is because he wants you to know that he doesnt like you the way you like him and you need to get over it
2007-04-02 10:22:53 · answer #11 · answered by Angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋