...ways e.g.oral.
I love sex and i think it is great, but I just cannot give oral and I wouldn`t let a guy give me oral, see i just couldn`t do it with a guy i love.
Of course there wil not be sex right away, any guy who wants to be with me will have to wait until we get to know each other well enough.I know guys love oral and i just don`t feel good about it, so yeah, do u think i should tell a guy right away and how?
2007-03-25 11:00:52 · 4 answers · asked by terracotta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i myself have dated wemen who would not give oral and i was ok with it,i would not say anything at first what till you are ready for sex then talk about it.both of you should be able to talk about your likes and deslikes.and if you do not like giving oral you can give great hand jobs trust me he will like it.
2007-03-25 11:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by bstcrpntr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly.. yeah i think you should.. its only fair really.. and its not like hes not gonna find out pretty shortly anyway... You can pretty much kiss the relationship goodbye in either event anyway... this would just make it simpler, quicker, and easier..
(I wouldnt enter into that relationship.. and i cant really think of anyone I know who would to tell the truth.. Male or female.. not saying there arent a few.. I just dont know any...)
I'm really not trying to be mean about this.. just realistic..
How do you tell him..? Just tell him.. be straight about it...
You obviously have some Umm strange phobia about this for what ever reason (not my job to judge.. but its really not normal) Have you considered therapy??? I dont know that it would help.. but i dont know that it wouldnt either.. There has to be some unknown underlying issue with this... thats a certainty...
Case in point.. Personally I'm not really fond of typical Vaginal/penis penetration sex.. my least fav thing.. (I much prefer hand jobs) But I'll do it if requested... I think its only fair to give the partner what they want and tripps thier trigger.. what ever it maybe (and you dont wanna know what some of those things might be.. but I do LOL)
And on a lighter note.. ya know what Woody Allen said..
Sex is dirty.. only if its done right" LOL
2007-03-25 18:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you give oral, and why don't you want oral? That's weird! It doesn't hurt--it feels good!
Love someone = No oral
What?!?!?!?!?!?!
Just try it a few times... if you do really love him, you'll just find that it's another sensual way to explore each other and please each other. A good, full sex life is important if you want your relationship to last long term!
2007-03-25 18:06:33 · answer #3 · answered by Erik M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you will end up being single for many years.
2007-03-25 18:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by jardon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋