What can I do?

Question

honestly, i loathe my mom.
she will be the literal death of me..
she always excourages me, always saying things like i'm so
dumb, clumsy, and stuff like that, and cusses too.
Then sometimes she hits me around, like just slaps me or hits
me in the face..
i am so sick and tired of it.
she always blames me for things i don't do too, like eating or
'taking' food from within our own house, she calls 'stealing.'

she makes me so angry around others.
i am so tired of this, i don't do anything in the first place.

she is not one to settle things with.
What should i do?
i don't want to report her to police or anything risky like that.
i'm just so sick of her treatment. [i am 14].

Answer 1

Make a phone call to DSS ( department of social services) every county has one. Tell them just what you have stated here. They will do a investigation based on report given them by a source they cannot reveal. You identity is protected and the problem will be taken care of without any one knowing it was you that reported it.

Answer 2

First I want to say I feel so sorry for you and my heart goes out to you. May God protect you.

You would have to report her or there is probable nothing else you can do. If you don't do something your gonna have to live with it until your old enough to get out on your own.

Is there a family member you can talk with who can influence her and speak to her as an adult. Can you talk with her yourself and maybe make her see how she is treating you.

I pray that you get some help. I'm a mother and I could never understand how a mom can be so mean. She should not be hitting you, that is against the law.

You need to get help yourself cause you in turn can take that resentment out on other people in you life later.

Answer 3

God you poor thing..I really feel for you. Does your mom have a drinking problem, on drugs or maybe she has a mental problem of some kind. Ask her why she is doing these things to you and you are tired of it. Talk to someone at your school like a teacher, one fo your friends parents or another adult. Call a hotline. Be careful so that nothing really bad will happen to you. If it gets worse call the police. That is child abuse and you don't deserve that. Your mom has the problem-not you. Good luck and I will be praying for you.

Answer 4

This might sound "typical", but talk to an adult you trust. Probably a teacher or counselor. That being said ,you sound pretty smart for your age so think about how you word things. I'm not saying to down-play your situation, but if certain words are said any responsible adult will be legally forced to contact the police.Bottom line, tell someone you can trust to keep things confidential and offer help. Good luck.

Answer 5

no one has the right to physically abuse you. name-calling and cussing are emotional abuse...

your mother isn't "disciplining" you when she slaps you and hits you around, but abusing... and i think you're too old for a "spanking".

i was abused when i was a kid, also. so, i know what it's like, and all of the emotional repurcussions which go along with it.

first of all your mother has dire problems... or she wouldn't treat you this way... she sounds angry, bitter and depressed. she needs to get help, but you can't force her.

there is nothing you can do short of going to an adult you trust to talk with. a minister? a school counselor or teacher? do you know someone?

you need another adult to step in and help YOU.... you are a victim here... and this treatment does lead to emotional problems later in life... it's sad, but true.

if you have a school counsellor, that is the best place to start. YES your mother will be investigated by social services, but the source of the complaint will remain anonymous.

take care of yourself... she has no right to harm you or treat you terribly.

protect yourself, get help now.

hugz

Answer 6

If indeed what you are saying is true, you would have some sence and report her the the police. If you feel its not worth reporting to the police and seeing her behind bars, then what you are saying most probably is a little over the top dont you think.

Answer 7

if you are really serious about what your saying i know you might not want to report her but you need to no child deserves to be treated like that so you should really call the police and maybe stay with a close family member until she can get some help

Answer 8

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Answer 9

hi there you poor thing you must be really going through it, you dont have to get your mum into trouble you could call the childline for advice or could you not trust another member of your family that you could confide in? she shouldnt be putting you through this and you shouldnt put up with it there are people out there that can help go to somebody in the school and they will put you in touch with a social worker but they will inform your mum as you are under the age of 16. the best option is to fone childline and talk confiedencaly you dont have to tell them who you are until you feel you want help but they will advice. i wish you all the luck in the world.

Answer 10

Ok that's abuse. I know u don't want to tell the police and everything but talk to someone that's very close. If it gets a lot worse, TELL THE POLICE!!!!!!!! I have numbers of emgency numbers. Here's the number for child abuse (it's a real so don't try to prank call) Child Abuse 800-252-5400

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