Is there something going on with my boyfriend and his ex??

Question

My bf and I been together for 9 months now, I've known him for almost 2 years from my understanding he hasn't has any contact with his ex, he said they had a bad fallen out but she still supports his music. Well the other day I went to his myspace music page and she left him a comment, saying "Hey you, keep up the good work, your number one fan, I love you alwayss", I asked him about it and he said she was "just showing love" being nice, I mean it just doesn't sound too right to me, for them to not really talk at her and her to say I love you always. He said I'm overreacting and he can't control what she says, which is true, but I feel like he has given her reason to feel that way. Please tell me what you guys think.

P.s. She lives in VA my bf and I live in MD, and he isn't an online bf,I see him maybe 3, 4 times a week. But why would she say that? I'm so confused because I love him so much

Answer 1

I would want there to be some clear boundries . Sounds fishy to me.

Answer 2

I can tell you the bset way to find out if your bf still has feelings for his ex is to dis her say she is fat or has a big butt or something. It doesn't have to be true but the closer to the truth is best. It has to be an all out dis. If he defends her honey you got problems. I have dealt with ex's and "old girl friends" and it has been 100% effective for me.

Answer 3

It sounds pretty innocent to me! You can't help it if she will love him always. Maybe she will, but he is with you now. I have a pretty good feel for guys cheating and stuff. Take a deep breathe, your man passed! Give him a break!

Answer 4

Sounds like an obligatory "i love you". People throw "i love you's" around like it's nothing these days. If you see him that much, don't worry about it.