i fell in love with this guy.. we never even got to become official though because he found some other girl... i was depressed right after it happened. Completely depressed. Then i got a little pick-me-up and was OK because one of his best friends helped me out. a lot. but now it's like two months later and I'm STILL not over him.. i am back to being utterly depressed again. not As much.. but i Still am nonetheless. I don't understand WHY... is this too long afterwards? (we dated about a month) i just keep feeling like it was all My fault.. and like he never gave me a real Chance. i keep dwelling on what could have been and what if's and i Can't stop. i can't delete his old texts Still. I feel like he should know how much i care about him and want to still be friends.. i just want him in my life. because when he ended it i was so mad i said i didn't know if i could stay friends.. but he never acted on it so i don't know if he really DID or was just saying it. but i want to. i love him.
2007-03-25 10:53:39 · 6 answers · asked by sweetaction 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and the day after he ended it i texted him like a Huge long text saying like Anything and Everything i wanted to.. thanking him for at least being in my life and stuff... and he was just like: i will text you in the morning i am in bed good night! and then he never texted. and when he told his best friend all he had to say was just: she seemed to be really repetitive. AUGH.
2007-03-25 11:05:33 · update #1
You should rejoice. You are free of this user. Cheer up my dear. You are no longer a door-mat. Sometimes you can be too nice to someone that you love. You end up getting walked on and abused one way or another. Go out with friends, and celebrate. Don't sit there and cry over this peice of crap. First thing you have to do is delete those bloody texts. Start fresh and new. I hope you learned from your mistakes. Don't go over-board next time with being extra good and nice to guys. They do not appreciate that at all...
2007-04-02 03:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to accept that he did not feel the same way about you.
What you are feeling is very typical of broken pride. If you think someone is about to break up with you, it is better to break up with them instead, because that way you are the dumper not the dumpee. If you are the dumpee (means the one who was dumped) then your pride is always broken and you pine for the one who dumped you way longer than you should.
This happens to all of us at some time in our lives, and it always comes as an embarrassing shock.
Take heart though, it will teach you things you will never learn otherwise, such as not revealing too much about your feelings before it is safe to do so (and you know what the other person feels), or how to dump someone more kindly, or how to protect your heart better in future.
The best cure I know is champagne and chocolate (or chocolate alone if you are not drinking age).
Good luck..... use it as a means to explore this particular emotion so you know it well if you are ever back in this place. It is a healthy part of emotional development.
2007-04-02 10:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pattern of your behavior insists that you may feel this way for a guy again. Girl pull yourself together. You are letting this man have too much power over you. He is taken and has moved on. See a counselor and do the same! I'm worried about you. Part of the reason you can't move on is because you don't want to. You need to erase the text mesages. I don't suggest friendship just yet. You are in too deep! Seek counseling.
2007-03-25 17:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. first you should tell him how you feel, and if he ignores you, then you deserve better then him. There are plenty of guys in the world and trust me the world wont always revolve around him. Like my dad alway told me, You cant sweat the little things in life!!!!
2007-03-25 18:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by maria 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
holy fuking shyt! me too! i fukcing hate it! i fukcing hate him! LOL! and i cant get over him! i cant offer you any advice.... just wanted you to know you're not alone.... men are insensitive little dikc pricks! they dont care.... so do wut i did BEFORE i fell in luv with him....if u cant beat em, join em. meaning.... act like a man. ;) become the everything you've always hated about them.... he'll soon realize what he lost. as well as know that 2 can play at that game. ;)
2007-03-25 18:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kimber Gem 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i really think you should get over this guy! its not worth wishing ur life away seriously though, was he THAT good. no guy is worth feeling that bad over. especially when he done what he done to you!!
2007-03-25 18:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋