and I'm a girl, augh life is soo unfair! He's the nicest, hottest guy ever. I truely think I love him. I never would have suspected he was gay, he sure as heck doesn't "act" it (not trying to be stereotypical) One of his friends/soccer teammates told me. So omg I am so crushed... I don't think I'll ever get over him :( :(
-Kenzie, 17, junior in hs
2007-03-25 10:50:09 · 15 answers · asked by McKenzie B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no I asked a couple more people it's TRUE apparently, but how could I not have known??
2007-03-25 10:53:46 · update #1
Frankly, why not just talk to him yourself? Tell him you have feelings for him. If he is gay, he can still be a good friend. Good friends talk to each other.
2007-03-25 10:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Kathy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the biggest crush on this guy when I was 14, He was so damn hot and nice. My brother worked with him and told all the time that he was gay. I of course didn't want to believe him. I ran into him this past fall after 10 years at a bar. I had to tell him what a huge crush I had on him back then. He was so sweet and nice about it, he was like "oh honey if I were straight". lol I actually think I needed to tell him I had a crush on him. Good luck.
2007-03-25 10:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Katie Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! i felt that same way when i found out about a guy that worked at some movie theatres i go to.
he was so F-ing HOT!! and he never ackd' gay or even gave a hint or w/e!!!
but i guess the only thing we can do is just dream about them and have dirty thougts [[[lol j/k]]]
...but i know how you feel~
2007-03-25 11:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by jackass_lover 3000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not like every gay person acts the same-- there are some who are so flamboyant that you can tell that the person's gay from a mile away--- then there are some that you just can not tell at all...and it seems that your guy is the second of the two.
2007-03-25 10:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by La 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoop whoop class of 2008!!! sorry i'm a jr too .... but are you 100% sure he is ... i mean what if that friend likes you and is just spreading rumors, then again he could be .....honestly you have to really find out if he is or not before you take another step ..... i think it's because you liked him so much that you looked past what he really might be...
2007-03-25 10:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by Slim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how well do u know these mates of his
they could be just saying that your best asking the guy u like out straight are you gay
2007-03-25 10:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw that sucks :(
there's better fish in the sea out there for you though.
maybe you can develop a "friendship" like brooke and davis from real world: denver ;)
good luck.
2007-03-25 10:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by caaitttyy !! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the goo ones are taken or gay!! get used to it!
Though i do feel for you, poor darl'
2007-03-25 10:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw sorry hun this happened to me recently. We can wish all we want but it'll never happen, ya know? Good luck!
2007-03-25 11:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would first advise you get the information first hand..many times "his friends" might not be the best place to get information. if you like him then let him know..if he hasn't come out to you, he is fair game
2007-03-25 10:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by melodydreamz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋