I can't talk this anymore....It's been 5 weeks since we broke up and I still cry everyday.
My heart is torn to shreds and it just gets worse with everyday.
I've gone to therapy, and they put me on medicine, but it's not helping, nothing is.
I just want to be alone :( we went out for a year, and she said she didn't want a relationship anymore, now she likes my friend and he likes her.
I just can't stand this pain anymore, i don't want it. She was my first love...
i've tried to fill the gap, i've hooked up with another girl, but that lasted like a day, and there is another that is really into me, but i still miss her everyday, but she moved on.
How do I move on and forget her???
This is the hardest thing i've ever done in my life, and caused me to feel the most pain i've ever felt.
how am i supposed to forget her? i've tired hanging with friends, i've tried so many things....
help
:(
2007-03-25 10:39:12 · 5 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am not going to lie...its gonna hurt for a long time..but it DOES go away...its not going to seem like that now but i 100% guarnette you that it will... it takes time.
2007-03-25 10:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by tekna1760 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you need to find out which one of your hands is the stronger one and when you do i want you to slap yourself across the face as hard as you can with it everyday that you aren't over her after a while missing her will not only be more painful it will also seem like needless chore because you have to do this is everyday. honestly if you want the pain to quit you more or less are over her you just miss her c'mon a year long relationship foregotten in a month it's not gonna happen wait it out and keep moving on with your life.
2007-03-25 11:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by FengHuaXueYue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, i know this sucks, but give it time, although five weeks is a lot. second, listen to the song "the first cut is the deepest" by sheryl crow twenty times over. third, get a hobby or something. focus on school/work. keep trying to hang with friends or other girls. just dont think about. ALWAYS keep urself busy, and it will eventually go away. dont be pathetic. im sure ur better than that.
2007-03-25 10:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by FANTABULOUS1017 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and hang out with your buddy's & toss a few down.....you will feel better.. It always takes time to heal... it's not going 2 happen in just 5 weeks. a broken heart heals slow. sorry to tell u this, but it's true........ i know from past experience.
2007-03-25 10:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off the medicine for one...it isn't going to help. Second, just deal with it. Sounds harsh, but hey, that's life.
2007-03-25 10:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by devgru2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋