okay, what do i do when he does this??? hurry, i see him in a bit.?

Question

okay, this guy i like, told my friend that he likes me. my friend and her brother and my brother (we are all in the same "group")
have told me that he told my friend that he does like me.
but like when we're not at church he flirts w/ me, but at church, like he doesn't really. still a little bit, but when we're at church and he doesn't really flirt, and i try to flirt w/ him, i always feel awkward. what do i do??? i'll see him tonight, so please answer. we'll all go out tonight, so what do i do???
please use appropriate answers...

Answer 1

For some reason he just might not be comfortable flirting at church. Maybe he feels his parents or someone in the church is watching and he is embarrassed. Obviously he likes you. Respect him and don't flirt in church flirt elsewhere when he is comfortable. When you become close enough talk to him about it. I am sure he will share with you his reasons behind it. For those saying you shouldn't flirt at church. I am sure this girl isn't saying she wants to flirt during the service she is talking about before and after the service during the socialization time with other Church members. You can flirt at church that is where marriage starts for a lot of people. Finding someone in church is the best place to find a spouse. Saying don't flirt at church is like saying don't discuss work, family, school or life. Only focus on the Lord. No the Lord should be in all parts of our life. Especially in our romantic life. Just respect him and don't do it because he is not comfortable with it.

Answer 2

nerves are always a huge problem in the beginning of relationships. Tonight, you should stay calm and maintain eye contact... but in the long term you should try to suggest something that just you and he could do alone together, you don't have to say date, you can say hang out. In that situation, if you guys fit, you will know... and to everybody, if your an adolescent, church is a great place to flirt, you can meet people of the same faith, please! It's a social thing as well as a religious thing.

Answer 3

Flirting in Church....NO.... there's a time and place for that, He most likely feels the same so stop flirting in Church other wise he may end up not liking you because you make him feel awkward. slow down Girl....try to listen to the sermon you may hear something that hits home.

Answer 4

I think staying friendly but not flirty at church is more appropriate. Church is not really a place to act out. Maybe he is like that because his parents or parents friends are there and he does not want to be inappropriate.

Just a thought

Answer 5

Sorry, most of your question is garbled. I think you're asking how to act with him tonight. If you're old enough to date and like him, try and get him in a conversation on a subject that's of interest to you both. If everything goes quiet, laugh and tell him it's his turn to speak. Don't worry about feeling awkward. On my first real date, my bf got up and I followed, thinking we were leaving. I walked straight into the mens toilets! We still managed to date for another 3 years. Good luck

Answer 6

He just doesn't want to flirt at church. He likes you. Guys just don't really show their affection for someone at church because they could get into trouble or they feel bad for focusing on you instead of what's going on at church. No sweat girly. :-)

Answer 7

He may not want to flirt in church so do not take any offense to it. Get to know him a little more and be yourself! Have a good time when you are around him and talk to him often! good luck!

Answer 8

That's because he's probably mature enough not to do that in church... I'm proud of him (and you should be too) 'cuz he seems like he's got a good head on his shoulders.

Just be yourself, and let your natural persona shine through. Although it often takes time for guys to pick up on this, but us guys know how to spot a "good-hearted" woman. Be comfortable in your own skin and you two should click just like that! =)

Have a great time!

Answer 9

I think he just doesn't want to be physical at church which is normal. Save cuddling and fooling around for after church. Try to stop thinking about him during the service and concentrate on the most important thing.
Its clear that he likes you so don't be afraid. just be yourself and maybe talk to him. Try and make it work!!

Answer 10

He might not feel comfortable flirting in a church. If he flirts with you, flirt back. If not, keep it cool.