how do i get him 2 come hard i mean i can get him hard as a dam rock but nothing comes out except pre-come
2007-03-25 10:36:04 · 13 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps your boyfriend masterbates before hand so he will try to last longer later for you. If you are having a hard time getting him to come, try something that you dont normally do. Change up a sex position with him that he never had to try before. Dont go straight to sex first. Make sure there is plenty of foreplay before hand to get things runnin in his mind. If you tease a lot before sex, he will want nothing more than to go ahead and get his rocks off as soon as your clothes come all the way off. Just make him want it, and dont let him have it right away. I know that when my girlfriend teases me around during the day for the night to come up later, the only thing on my mind is how bad I want to get in the sack with her and just have sex with her. Main advice is to play some mind games with him, dont let him know that you want it as much as he does, until you finally decide that the tension between both of your hormones is built to an extreme high. Then let it LOOSE!. Best of luck. lol
2007-03-25 10:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Matthew S 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
1. Ask him if it is okay for you to try putting your finger in his bottom. For a lot of us this will push us right over the edge into orgasm, especially if you have him very close from oral, or if you are having intercourse in a position that lets you reach his anus.
You need to use a lube meant for sex, and you should put on a latex glove if you have sharp nails (or worry about mess). Just putting your finger in may be enough for him. Also you can reach in and press "down" on his prostate gently, and this can really be amazing for the guy. (See the link.)
2. Ask him to masturbate to orgasm while you watch. You may be able to learn techniques and rhythms that work for him.
2007-03-25 17:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may very well be a physical problem for your boyfriend. This is uncommon, he may need to seek medical attn first to rule medical problems, then go from there. Don't blame yourself, together you can get through this. Good Luck.
2007-03-25 17:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Must not know what you're doing. Ask him what he likes and what feels better/worse for him. Let him teach you what he likes and go from there.
2007-03-25 17:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by Love Me or Hate Me... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do something that turn him on ask his what turn him on or doing some u never did before
2007-03-25 17:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by saniyamack14 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do kegel exercises to make your vagina tighter. Ask him what he likes and do that. Learn how to deepthroat. Etc.
2007-03-25 17:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do something that only happens in unrated movies.
2007-03-25 17:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by Dillon C (who else) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask your mom to help out
2007-03-26 06:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by wooba goomba green teeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a great long sensual *******..that should work
2007-03-25 17:39:16 · answer #9 · answered by shannon_bi girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be good i guess coz i you were good then you'd have no problem with that
2007-03-25 17:38:12 · answer #10 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋