well marie and i have told her brother.hes furious.to be honest..if i had a sister i would be abit mad.but hes giving me 24 hours.her or him.we've been friends for so many years but i really do love marie(and of course my daughter).he can he make me do something like that?
2007-03-25 10:34:56 · 20 answers · asked by dream_hawk22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
quick recap:got my best friends sister pregnant.we are in love.we are not dating.
her brother does not like it.
2007-03-25 10:44:58 · update #1
if you cant be bothered to read past questions then dont answer.and i know this is not a soap.wow i hope you dont work for stuff like childline or whatever.they would kill themselves after speaking to you lot.
you know what?if you dont read questions then i am not bothering to fill you in.do the math here assholes.i dont have to tell anything twice.
2007-03-25 10:46:46 · update #2
i pity the people that answered...apart from the last one of course.they must have had very sheltered lives and dont know what happens in the real world(not the tv program).not everything in life is handed on a silver platter.
2007-03-25 11:04:14 · update #3
im sorry, i am also guilty of not reading ur past Q but from what i have read in this Q i have come to a conclusion that i hope helps. if you were such good friends with her brother surely he will know that you are a nice bloke and worthy of his sister? give him time to adjust to this situation and let him know that giving you 24 hours to choose him or the lovely marie is totally unreasonable and not going to solve anything. if you choose him he will still hate you for leaving his lil sis in the lurch, if you choose her he will be annoyed that his mate has dumped him. it really is a tough call, id sit down with him and marie and speak my mind if i were you, there is a beautiful baby in the equation here too so please be careful!and if you really do love her stick with her, they will both be happy with your decision sooner or later, especially when he see's how happy u make his sister. good luck chick Xx
2007-03-26 00:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by lexi88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No adult can make any other adult do or not do anything except as the law provides.
Let the 24 hours spin out without giving them a blind bit of notice, and carry on your merry way. You don't need his permission. You have no relationships with his deadlines.
BUT
Does he have a point at all? Are you an áss in any way? Is she better off without you? Are the pair of you too young?
or is it just over-protective brother syndrome? If you can examine your own soul, and she hers, and feel comfortable with your motivations here, then go ahead with your life together and let him catch up if he wants to.
2007-03-25 10:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by wild_eep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he'd be happy if you dumped her and left the baby fatherless, whilst staying friends with him? That can't be right. If you're in love with her, then only she should matter. He has to go and sort out his own problems - he may think he's acting in his sister's best interests and he may have his own reasons for doing so but you have to ensure Marie and your daughter are the top priorities here. Tempers are still high; give it time and he should come round once he realises that you're in it for the long-run. Good luck
2007-03-25 10:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by starry eyed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow 24 is not long but if you could really show him that you care for her, and not in a way you have let your friend See you with other Chickie's!!!! He needs to know that you will respect his sister. He is a good brother to worry about her, but needs to let her make that final call.
2007-03-25 10:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by lou lou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question makes absolutely no sense. This isn't a soap opera site, please don't expect people to go digging through your past questions to figure out the latest chapter in the saga. Get the facts out in one post so we can read and reply.
Thanks!
2007-03-25 10:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the fact that he is making you choose shows that he is not the friend you thought he was, i can understand him being overprotective but he should be able to deal with it...personally i would tell him nothing and see what happens from there
2007-03-25 10:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by Chase Smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mind her brother u seem like a good guy her brother is just protective.
2007-03-25 10:39:12 · answer #7 · answered by ♥LuV my preppyness♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has no right to make you choose but whoever is going to make you happy . but if i was you i will always choose both.reguardless who ever you choose some one is going to get mad but choose both whao cares. he must have not been a good friend.
2007-03-25 10:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by Ryah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not the friend you thought he was do not be blackmailed by him, make your own mind up what you want to do.
2007-03-25 11:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not a very good friend to me. and he cant really do that though. I would not be his friend.
2007-03-25 10:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by Twilight Fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋