Is he looking for more?
I have had a really good male friend for about three years. I always got the impression he really liked me as more than a friend but I was living with somone at the time. I can tell him anything and confided in him when my relationship broke down. He was fully supportive and did what he could to help me, mainly listening. Now though, I am starting to feel things are changing between us. He asks me if I want a new relationship yet and keeps being a little flirtatious. He wants to know if I have found another place to live yet. He will do anything for me and I am starting to see him in a different light now. I only see him about once a month because he has a really good job that takes up a lot of his time but when I do see him we talk for ages and we laugh and joke a lot and he's always got a big smile on his face and dreamy eyes that bore into mine when he asks those questions. Does he want a realtionship with me but is a bit unsure how to tell me?
2007-03-25 10:34:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like hes been trying to hint to you already!! Hes hoping your gonna get the hint.. and it probably too shy to tell you straight forward.. If you like him .. flirt back.. And hang out with him a bit more..
Its all good because hes your friend also and it would be like 2 in one
2007-03-25 10:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by MeganElizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the only way to know for sure if he's wanting a relationship with you is to ask him. However, the main question should be...are you really ready for another relationship after just ending a three year relationship with another guy! Do you really want this close male friend to be your rebound guy? Do you have any questions about whether the is "the one". Because if you don't really think he's the one, and you are unsure if your friendship will last if a break-up occurs later down the road, perhaps it would be best to let sleeping dogs lie, so to speak.
Just be sure that this is what you want, and that you are ready for it, before allowing the possibility of a ruined friendship later down the road! Good luck!
2007-03-25 10:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by Robin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he really likes you and wants you to be his next relationship but doesnt know how to ask or go about it... so when you guys are asking each other questions... ask him if wants a new relationship... and if he ask you about it... jokingly say why you offering and if he says yes or looks at you in that way then say cause my answer would be yes or something
2007-03-25 10:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by Big E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him aswell...why dont you just tell him!! let one thing lead to another and see how things go. you will eventually find out what you both want. it will not ruin your friendship...all good relationships start out as a freindship. bite the bullet and let him know...it does sound like he is keen!!
good luck
2007-03-25 10:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by hunybuny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is totally digging you! he sounds like the perfect guy and if you have butterflies everytime i see or talk to him, then maybe you should go for it! why not try talking to him and see how he really feels about you. good luck!
2007-03-25 10:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he definetly wants a relationship and you should give him a shot. if you have feelings for him, maybe you should open up first. he's been there for you, now would be a great time to be there for him. :)
2007-03-25 10:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by baby_gurl_in_cali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might but then again he might not..boys r trickky as hell these days i wish i culd help but all i can say is ask him maybe...thats the best way
2007-03-25 10:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you already asked this and everyone's already said yes?!
2007-03-25 10:41:49 · answer #8 · answered by starry eyed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is still interested in you hun..keep persuing him..it will work out..dont give up hope
2007-03-25 10:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by shannon_bi girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋