She knows Im interested in them, and she even has her own boyfriend, but she continuously flirts, sits on the lap of, and is all over them. At first, I just thought she was being herself, but not its starting to annoy me. And I dont know what to say to her because Im afraid Im being too tight.
2007-03-25 10:32:29 · 25 answers · asked by allydally 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ugh, I know what that feels like - I have/had the same problem. I'd say either get a new best friend if she's really getting on your nerves, or just don't tell her any of the guys you're interested in. If she still flirts with every guy you like even when you don't tell her, then maybe it's just her personality - and you should explain that it's wrong, especially when she has a boyfriend.
2007-03-25 10:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh my, I had this very same problem a few years ago. My ex-best friend used to do this same kind of stuff to me but I never said anything. Finally, one day I found out that she was sleeping with my boyfriend (whom I had lost my virginity to and thought I would be marrying). The point is, you need to at least let her know it bothers you because if you don't it will progressively get worse. Honestly, I would recommend not being her friend anymore. It sounds like she is jealous of you, and what kind of friend treats someone that way who they are supposed to care about?
2007-03-25 10:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, if shes your best friend, then you shouldn't be afraid of what she answers you. The her the truth. Tell her that, that is getting annoying and that you really like him. This happened to me. But it was the opposite. My best friend really like this guy, but I ended up getting with him. So I felt kind of weird. But the guy didn't like her, but me. The only thing that might work, is telling her. Good Luck!!!
2007-03-25 10:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by Jazmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's no friend, really. A best friend would be asking a guy questions to find out if he is worthy of being your boyfriend. She would be protective of you, not flirty with him. I would tell her how you feel. Her reaction to it will tell you everything. If she does anything but apologize a hundred times over, then she doesn't really care about you and you should have more quality people as friends :-)
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2016-10-20 10:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being a little tight.
Just let your friend be her. If she likes them its not like its going to kill you to let your best friend go out on a date with them.
2007-03-25 10:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
SIT with a coke and talk it out. IF she dont respect you(after the talk) id concider finding a new friend.
2007-03-25 10:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ask her why she is doing it, and if she continues to do it, then you don't need her if shes hurting you, or don't tell her who you like then maybe she won't flirt, maybe shes doing it to make you jealous, good luck!
2007-03-25 10:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by khadεsia. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you can't talk to her about it, then she's not much of a best friend...it sounds like insecurity but you should let her know it troubles you and ask her why she does it...
2007-03-25 10:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She has low self-esteem and that may never change... I had a friend that did the same thing and we eventually had to go our seperate ways. If it isn't you, she will do it to someone else.
2007-03-25 10:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by lysistrata411 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋