My christain daughter told me she thinks she is a lesbian she is fixing to be 19. She said she new it was wrong and ungodly she has been trying to fight it but she doesnt know what to do and needs help!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-25 10:24:47 · 20 answers · asked by jade 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
She is eighteen "fixin to be 19" then she is an adult.
Did you ask her why she has come to you to tell you about this?
She must have something in her mind about what or how she would like you to be involved?
Is she asking you to pray with her? Or is she asking you to pray for her?
What does she want you to do? Find out what she is asking of you and how she expects you to be involved...
2007-04-02 07:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by gigiemilu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she hot?
If so, I am fixin to get me a little something something from a "Christian Lesbian" in the near future.
God is such B.S. and even if you keep praying, there is no solution for your daughters sexual orientation. You should move out of the deep south and the trailer park you call home and get some CULTURE! Look around, there are many people who are not nearly as blinded by the righteousness of your "god" as you. Your god is supposed to advocate tolerance and understanding, yet the bible has tales of murder and prejudice. As I always say- "Reading the Bible will make an Atheist out of you!"
-"If everything in your life was then it got bad- would you hate me?"
- "So what am I supposed to do about it?"
-Flight Response
Travis Meeks
2007-04-02 08:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by monkey tuesday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's a lesbian then she's gonna be one no matter what. Be supportive of her and don't be a bad mother and push her away and try to tell her that she's an abomination or something. You cannot change your sexual orientation. Some girls do go through a phase where they think they're a lesbian, when they're actually just bisexual or curious. Others really are lesbians, and there's nothing you can do about it. Just deal with life as it comes.
2007-03-25 10:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sammer -- what a pile of unmitigated crap! You call yourself a Christian Nowhere in the Bible is lesbianism said to be wrong.
princess-
There is a Bible passage that says - a man shall no lay with another man.
I think that this passage was written out of fear by the biblical scholars of the day. People shouldn't be afraid because they have no concept or ability to understand. It is also said - to not judge lest you be judged - that he who has not sinned cast the first stone.
jason m-
God does not make mistakes! If there were a God there are mistakes all around you. All you need do is too open your eyes.
Science is working to correct mistakes everywhere.
2007-04-02 05:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pray, it is a delicate situation. Only the Lord can give you wisdom to handle this. You said: "She thinks she is" but your not sure if any activity was taken place. Lesbian is a choice as well as a spirit from satan. According to Romans 1:1-32, and Lev. 18:22. Get together with her make sure she wants to surrender this to the Lord and pray for her and with her and ask God to set her free from that spirit. Give her scriptures in the bible and let her know what God's word says about it.
2007-04-02 05:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by Rose 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She needs love and support from her family, she'll get all the Hell threats and ostracization she needs elsewhere. She needs to realize it's what she is if that's what she is. Why don't you contact PFLAG? (Parents families and friends of lesbians and gays) Support groups are great if you can't figure out something on your own. (by the way, it's not wrong and ungodly to love....)
2007-03-25 10:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by gimmenamenow 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a Christian who is gay. It is no more ungodly or wrong than any other sexuality. The key is not who you love but how you love. Are you faithful or an adulterer.
I would recommend she contact MCC (metropolitan Community Churches) ASAP www.jesus.com There she will learn to love herself and others as Jesus commanded.
2007-03-25 10:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by mike g 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have her see a Christian counselor. Have her talk about her feelings and how does she really feel. If she has an inclination to Lesbianism, she Will have to understand that to be a Christian she will have to live in abstinence. I am sure that with the right counseling she will eventually find who she really is. Do not force her into anything, do it with love.
2007-04-02 06:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by CheryllDianne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if something is wrong and you know it's wrong and above all, ungodly to. what kind of help do she need? or, is she waiting on someone to tell her it's okay to so she don't have to feel guilty about during it. right is right and wrong is wrong and God is right all the times, so choose right and seek God.
2007-04-02 09:48:40 · answer #9 · answered by skinnytwin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her that her relationship with God is between her and God.
Tell her to pray for guidance in this and every situation that comes up in her life.
Tell her that regardless of her decisions, you are her mother and will love her no matter what she decides.
That would be the best advice I can give you.
2007-04-01 17:28:38 · answer #10 · answered by angie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋