My daughter has to go for genetic testing !?

Question

to rule out any associated syndromes, she was born with a cleft palate, like my sister who had no syndrome, but because her speech is behind they have to rule out any associated syndromes! I really don't want her to go. But she has also got a slightly mishapen head, from a very traumatic birth.She is 5 soon!
Her speech is coming on, she is very shy! I jsut don't want her to go through having a blood test! Anyone had simular experience! Its tuesday we see the genetic dr!

Answer 1

It is only one blood test, so go for it. It might be a bit unpleasant for you both for a few minutes, but the long term gain will be greater.
If your daughter does have an associated syndrome, then surely by finding out what it is, you will be better able to help her with any future problems?
Also if the test comes back negative, you will be able to stop worrying about potential problems, and get own with both of your lives.
Go for the test. Good luck.

Answer 2

As a mom of having a child with a syndrome I can understand how you feel and why.
My daughter was born after a very traumatic birth and as the doctors said she looked odd. Not a nice thing to hear as a first time very scared mom I can tell you.
The doctors are trying to rule out any syndrome they can or to see if she has one. The test is just a blood test and sometimes they also take the parents blood too but it sounds as if they just want to rule out things with your daughter.
Let her have the test and for this reason if she did have a syndrome it means she will get the best possible care ever, you will have lots of support as to what to do to encourage her development and the next stage.
If she has no syndrome then they can rule it out and you get on with your life.
My daughter did have a rare syndrome that no one knew of only ten in the world she did I would like to add have lots of strange features ect. I was told she would never live past one today she is 24!!!!!
She may be severly disabled but because I knew what I was dealing with from the very start I was able to encourage her in all the right places. I made sure we got all the help she needed and of course support for my husband and I.
If you took a good look at any one person including yourself or even me we all have some odd feature and it is a lot more common than you think and it does not mean we all have a syndrome.
Let them take the blood test not just for your sake but also for hers.
I will be thinking of you on Tuesday and good luck.

Answer 3

My son had these tests. Watching your child have a blood test isn't the best thing, but they do try to make it as easy and quick as possible. The put cream on the back of the hand and leave it covered for 20-30 minutes, then take the blood from the back of the hand. It's doesn't take long and the cream seems very effective at numbing the area first. Try not to let her see you're nervous, it could frighten her. Good luck.

Answer 4

My daughter is 19 months and has a cleft lip and palate..With our kiddos speech is delayed but that's just part of it.They haven't done any testing with you, the dad, or your daughter yet? Ella had her bloodwork taken during her 1st surgeries while she was under which I was thankful for...Your sister has a cleft as well? I guess I'm just a little surprised they haven't done any genetic testing until now..You might want to visit www.cleftadvocate.org and ask a few questions on their board..I'm sure there's someone that has gone through it as well..As for the blood test , it won't be that bad..

Answer 5

I agree with the other people that it is good to get things checked out, but one word of caution. I have been told that anything found by the genetic screening is considered a "preexisiting condition" for life, which may make getting individual health insurance difficult. Our health care system is so messed up that you would have to even think about that, but it is something to consider. You may want a second opinion or ask the doctor directly what other symptoms make them think this is needed. The blood test is minimal compared to knowing in advance what you may be dealing with and being able to use early intervention strategies that are more beneficial than waiting. If you are interested in natural toys, check out my blog:
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Answer 6

My daughter had to undergo testing (4 hour blood test) because she is so small. At first we said no but then changed our minds. We decided to go ahead with the testing because if later in life we found out there was something wrong that could have had early treatment etc. we would not have been able to forgive ourselves. We did the testing and everything was fine including our peace of mind. It is also a great way to get the Dr. to stop hounding you!

Answer 7

The "experience of having a blood test"?

Your going to go into the lab, more than likely the are going to stick an anesthetic patch or cream on her. You or a nurse are going to keep her attention away from her arm and they will draw blood. She hopefully won't have a clue what is happening.

I know this is going to be stressful to you to wait on the results. And I completely respect your choice not to do the testing if you do not want to for some reason (like the tests aren't accurate, or there is no treatment for what they are looking for). But seriously a blood draw is no big deal.

Answer 8

All kids hate needles etc, but don't act anxious yourself or she'll feel it. Just be calm & bring a book to read to her & let her look at the pictures while she is getting the blood drawn. It's best to find out if she needs any extra help with anything now, so you can get it taken care of from the start. To help with her shyness, maybe you could put her in some type of sport to give her more oppertunities to learn to make friends.

Answer 9

There is something you can buy at the pharmacy called an "Emla patch" it numbs the area so the blood test won't hurt. But sometimes it is the anticipation of the needle, so even if it is numb she will still cry because of seeing the needle. It is hard I know, but just be strong and get it over with, she is probably fine, they just want to be sure. Take Care, I hope everything is okay.

Answer 10

you're in ordinary terms finding on the damaging. Say you have the genetic finding out and discover available's a concern. you recognize you will no longer terminate, even though it additionally facilitates you time to coach. in case you might have a definite desires baby, then you definately will in all likelihood want issues that can assist you practice. you will have the ability to get counseling in case you desire it and the possibility to analyze the sickness so which you recognize greater of what to assume. It additionally helps you to recover from the marvel, then by utilising the time the toddler comes it will be a joyous time particularly of a marvel.