is haveing kids at 12 13 14 16 a bad age?

Question

i just had a kid and i am 13 my mom said it was a bad age. i love my age.i live with my boyfrend i want a 2nd kid but i do not know what to do help me?

Answer 1

When your kid is 10 you will only be 23 and just begining to understand life.. Please wait until you are older.

Answer 2

well I'll give you a different answer i was 13 when i got pregnant and i was 14 when i had the kid i live with my husband who is the baby's father and we waited to have a 2nd till i was 17 I'm now almost 18 and our 2nd is 6 months i love my kids to i didn't ruin my child hood our anything if your parents will help you can still finish school and make something of your self i did i finished high school and I'm now taking nursing classes, i still get to go out with friends and i still have a life don't let anybody tell you that your life is over it's not. i would wait a few years like till this kid is at least 3 because since your so young your body needs more time to heal. and to all you people saying shes crazy shame on you if you haven't been Thur it you shouldn't be giving advice. i have been Thur it and know what it's like. and something Else back in the early 1900's women were married off and having kids by the time they started there periods so whats to say that us young kids are crazy if we can handle it then why are you telling us were crazy????? i say don't listen to these people when your ready your body, mind, and heart will let you know good luck.

Answer 3

yes of course it's a bad age. you are a child, you should be playing with barbies, not having sex!!! You shouldn't be living w/ your boyfriend. Please do not have another child!!!!!

Picture this: You are home alone with your baby and he/she chokes...what the hell are you gonna do? What if your baby comes down with a high fever, vomiting, diarrhea...what are you gonna do? You can't even drive!

I can tell you that I had my children young. I was 18 and 20 when I had my daughters. I love my children so much, but it hasn't been easy and their father has always been present. I can't imagine if he hadn't been and you know what...you're teenaged bf is not going to stick around. It is a very rare boy who would. I love my daughters so much, but i've made mistakes and a part of me wonders if I had been more mature if I would have been a better mother to them. Think about your child(ren)...don't they deserve the best mother you can be? At 13, no one can be a good parent....they can't even provide the basics for their child....

Answer 4

You are way to young to have one baby let alone think about having another. You have your whole life ahead of you....What about high school and college and exploring the person you are before trying to help your child figure themselves out. I am 37 years old and there are still days I feel overwhelmed at my reponsibilities as a parent. If you have another baby you are being selfish, as a parent you should have your childs best interest at heart and I dont see how you can do that being a child yourself

Answer 5

You're way too young. Even 16 is young but better. You can't possibly raise a child when you've barely experienced life yourself. You're still a child and have no idea what being an adult is like. It wouldn't be smart to have another kid right now. Listen to your mom. She knows what she's talking about

Answer 6

hun, you live with your boyfriend at the age of 13? how old is the? you can not even get a drivers licence and you had a baby. I know you feel like you can do everything a legal adult can do, but you are too young to make many important decisions that are necessary to make being a parent, not all but many. do you think about protecting your little one from child molestors or know how to properly clean a skinned knee?

Answer 7

That is horrible! no one should have a baby at that age. Your not even in high school. how can you afford anything? your not old enough to have a good job. i think u should have a baby when your old enough to support one on your own. who pays for everything? i am sure your mother does. you have a horrible mother. she lets you have your boyfriend live with you and your only 13. is this a joke? do u really think that it's okay to have a baby that young? its sooooooooooo disgusting. you should not have another maybe. you should be in a foster home. you should be punished .

Answer 8

I am 19, my son is 6months old. I am still struggling with having a child. I married my then boyfriend, who is now my husband and is great with our son. However its so hard!!!! Your 13 years old, not even old enough to drive a car and you have a child. That's just not right!!! How old is your baby? just wait until the baby starts teething and see if you want another one. Having a child is different then playing with dolls!

Answer 9

This has to be a trick question, if not you need counseling and guess what , when you get older and want to go out with your friends you can't cause your stuck at home with your child. You haven't even begun to mature. If i were you I wouldn't even have another baby. And your b/f might not be around forever!

Answer 10

are you kidding me??? You just TOTALLY blew your childhood. Being a child is when you are innocent and live your life to the fullest without nay worries. Plus your bf is gonna break up w/ u. and ur mom is ashamed of u. also ur gonna end up on the street w/ like 9 kids by ur self!!!!!!! have fun!!!!

Answer 11

Are you insane??? What are you going to do for money? Be on welfare and make all us tax payers support your children. You mom should be punished for letting you have sex at your age. My daughter is 9 and I would beat her a** at 13 if she told me she was pregnant. Are you even old enough to work? What is this world coming to?