i think im in love with my best friend?

Question

my best friend is going out with a senior and she is 15, i really like her and im in her class, but ive been trying to get over it but the harder i try the harder it is every time i get farther away she pulls me back in, if she goes to a movie and her boyfriend isnt there she lies on my shoulder and stuff like that, I just care so much about her that i dont want him to hurt her, but i also think that God broke the mold when he made her, we always hang out and she totally trusts me \ ,but i just cant get over it and i dont know why, ive tried dating other people but i can only think about her when im with her all the other girls look less attractive , i dont know why because ive always been able to get over stuff like this but i cannot with her, she is very flirty with me and i love every second i spend with her, when she hugs me i wish it would last forever, what should i do

Answer 1

your love with her is strong, it refuses to go away, it looks like she is that special one 4 u, she worths everything, even ur patience to wait her until she's ready to love u, keep going at, and maybe u could be at her side one day, maybe u r the perfect couple and don't u even know

Answer 2

If I've got this right, it goes, you don't know what you've got till its gone! I had been in love with my best friend. We had been best friends since we were kids and grew up together, we were practically inseparable. Anyways, I was always there to hear him talk about this new girl he liked, or something of that sort! Anyways, when he went away to college, we had slightly grown apart! He had not liked me that way! When he came back to visit me, it was then that he told me that he was in love with me, and could not stop thinking about me! But by that time I had tried to move on with somone else, and he tried to win me over. What I am trying to say is, you are always there, if her BF is not there then, you fil in, you are a great friend to her, but what she would need to see is when you are not there! If she jsut misses her friend, then, you were destined to be friends! The basis of any relationship IS OF COURSE friendship! And the best bf/gf relationships have great friendships behind it! I hoped that this made some degree of sense in all that I mumbled there!

Answer 3

Tell her how you feel. Just be ready for rejection. If she rejects you just remember, at least you gave it a shot.

If you don't do it, in 20 years from now you will look back and say, why didn't I at least tell her how I felt.

You never know how she will respond until you try.

Good luck.

Answer 4

Go for it; although her boyfriend may get at you and beat you up.

She may just be flirty, but you never know if you never tell her how you feel. You seem to feel strong for her and if you can't get over her, maybe you never were meant to be over it.
Best of luck!

Answer 5

You should tell her exactly what you wrote but before you say all of it say before i say all this i do not want it to effect our friendship....then you say what you wrote! sometimes girls go out with other guys to make the guy they really like jeleous....i do that to the guy im in love w/ !!! Chances are she likes you too!!! But if you guys are really best friends you are totally open to each other about everything..... so why not about this?????

I hope everything works out.... she may not be in klove with you now but mabey acouple years later she will be..................GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

1st off, i think ur in LOVE!! i would tell her. she might like u 2. u will never know unless u do something about it. i hope it works out.

GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 7

take it slow.....and just ask her if she likes you and if she doesn't then just pretend nothing happened .. or u can be open about it and just tell her but just say i think i have feelings for you .. and say i don't want it to hurt our friend ship... but just take it slow

Answer 8

Oh! Thats sweat! Just tell her that you love her!! DO IT!!