hello. im a 15 year old boy, and though i do like girls and am 100% straight, I've never loved a girl up until now. She is in my class, and since i've layed eyes on her, i've been in love, i truly believe it's love at first sight, and now i feel like she's the only girl for me and that i need her. My problem with her though is that for one she considers me a friend i think and not like a relationship thing. anyway, the big problem is that she has a boyfriend, whois also one of my friends. you don't understand, I need her...what can i do, and if i wait it out, can i get her??
2007-03-25 09:56:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be there as a friend, and if she breaks up with her boyfriend, let her know your feelings. If she doesn't feel the same, there's not much you can do. You can continue being a friend, but make sure you are being a true friend. If she comes to you for advice about a guy, don't give her bad advice so they break up maybe. She will eventually find out if you are trying to sabotage her relationships, and then there will be no chance for you at all. In short, be a friend, and know that it may not lead to anything. If it doesn't, either cut and run, or accept it.
2007-03-25 10:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by HG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue being good friends with her. Every girl needs a special guy friend - in addition to her boyfriend. Someone she's comfortable to talk with and be able to get unbiased opinions from. A girl likes to know a guy's point of view about things that she's probably can't ask her bf. Wouldn't you rather be this kind of a friend to her? Either that or completely remove yourself from the picture coz you'll be hurting everytime you see her and the bf. Think about it.
2007-03-25 17:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by tin2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do anything to break your friends up cause it could cause you to lose both of your friends in the long run. You are at a advantage because you are friends with this girl. For the time being I would build on your friendship with her and let her know your there for her but I would also get involved with your other friends and respect her for how she feels right now.
Chances are that she will break up with your other friend and you will get a chance to become more than friends with her.
But at this time its good to intereact with other people and get involved with activities in school /church to get your mind off things. good luck
2007-03-25 17:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something. DO NOT do what I did. WAIT. Don't worry about it, just have her in your life. I rushed too quickly with a guy l was in love with and I destroyed the friendship immediately. Time is the best key. I know that you need her, but give it some time. Trust me on this!
2007-03-25 17:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats kind of like the same situation as im in. If i was you then i would go into totall flirt mode. Girls can always tell if a guy likes them ,or in ur case loves them, if they are really putting the moves on them
2007-03-25 17:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on man, you're still young my friend. You can't necessarily think she's the one? There's many younglings out there who you would spot and they'd en up being single. Don't wait for her, she probably won't even go to you.
2007-03-25 17:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by jessyfiend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait things out, and be a good friend.
2007-03-25 17:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly I will say...let her go...she is involved with another guy and you will only get hurt and possibly loose the friendship of both.. sorry there are other girls go for it and good luck
2007-03-25 17:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by hykerchik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just chill out. First off, you don't NEED her. You may think you do now, but trust me you don't. And Second of all, just chill. if it was meant to happen then it will on its on.
2007-03-25 17:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋