this is the deal here have decided after another disastrous date..this one lasted and hour and a half..i am booking myself into a nunnery and have decided to become a nun and shall wear the black habit for my remaining day,s...
what is it with men ...all i want is a decent one ..where are you all??? or i,m off to the convent haha
2007-03-25 09:38:21 · 18 answers · asked by hawthorn330 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are about !but we have the same problem where are all the decent women, I have given up looking but best of luck
2007-03-25 09:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by decrepid1958 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha. I would leave the convent idea out unless you are highly religious.
I know that I went on the whole boyfriend search hard core my Junior year of high school. It seemed like either I couldn't make things work on dates or the guys were just totally not for me. I got pretty fed up ... and then, my senior year my best guy friend's girlfriend broke up with him. After hanging out with him for a while we started dating. We have been now for nearly a year and half and I am so, so happy.
Just hang in there!! Haha. I'm sure you will find a guy soon, before you have to reside in the nunnery!!
2007-03-25 09:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by jaytotheackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all married to decent women. If there are any more about I don't think you will find what you are looking for in a nunnery. The black habit might help to create a bit more interest though.
2007-03-25 09:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by oldtimer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely gave up on men and was single (by choice) for nearly a year. I concentrated on being alone and became comfortable with myself and even dealt with the uncomfortable feelings of loneliness and what ifs. Then one morning I woke up and realised that I was happy and I didn't actually "need" anybody in my life and that I was enough. Funny thing is one week after that morning I met the most amazing man completely by chance and we are still together.
Try being alone but being happy and comfortable with it. Also maybe you are going for a certain type of man and you dont even realise it. The unpleasant truth about all this is that what all these "wrong" men have in common is you, you are unconsciously attracting these types. Some time alone, a bit of meditation and self analysis would help you get perspective.
2007-03-25 09:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by Peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be frustrating if you're expectations are even dismally low somethings--smile.
"Just roll with the punches", is all I can say. After a while almost nothing that isn't truly scarry bothers you. It's no easier for men if it makes you feel any better. But a better day will come, and this is all making you stronger and giving you a lot of practice meeting and reading people.
2007-03-25 09:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're all taken...haha. Its the 2000s nobody knows who wants what. Espeacially the men don't know what to do. The real good ones have a hard time picking up women because they don't know how. The players can walk up to a good looking lady and just start talking to her. The good ones have a hard time with that because of "fear of rejection" I see women look at men just as much as men look at them. Why can't they (women) go up to the man? Try online dating.
2007-03-25 09:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by The MO_Minator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my friends are all really nice guys (afraid 80% are taken) and get fed up with girls asking where all nice the guys are then sleeping with the local bad boys, we are not ugly or desperate but if you really want a nice guy boyfriend and not somebody to whinge to, then we still exist you just have to keep looking (hint, we are normally the quiet ones).
Good luck in the covenant.
2007-03-26 02:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a book about your all your bad dates, publish it, sell million copies, sign a movie deal and become rich and famous. By then you would've forgotten all about stupid men and probably get married a couple of times. Write a book about your failed mariages, publish it ... ;)
2007-03-25 09:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by Lala85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great choice. cause if you are looking for the "perfect" man, it won't happen. just as theres no "perfect" woman. be friends with guys first. by the time you fall in love, his imperfections may not bother you as much. i could never do the dating thing again. if me an my hubby ever split, I'd be single forever!!
2007-03-25 09:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by heather l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem but with wemon ive never dated a decent one and ive dated around fifteen girls
2007-03-25 09:55:02 · answer #10 · answered by ciaran e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋