if you were a bridesmaid at a turkish wedding , would it be rude not to do that dance with the jug?

Answer 1

I don't know what dance you're talking about, but if it's expected that the bridesmaids do that dance with the jug, then, yes, it's rude not to do it. If you don't want to do it, then don't be a bridesmaid.

It's not your wedding to say what traditions you will or will not take part in.

Answer 2

I dont know what that dance is but if you're expected to do it, you should.