gf had affair before we got together yet still keeps in touch with him. Even says I love you to him yet if I were to do that it would be a fight, and i'm not suppose to be upset when she says this to him. Her answer is cause he is old and sick. I know the guy is in 70's and does have health problems but that is no excuse. I did it one time with ex gf and she had a fit. Ok for her but not me. What is everyones opinion
2007-03-25 09:33:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ahh my man your are right to be mad about that. you should tell her to cut all ties with this guy and that it hurts you when she says it. If she keeps is up she doesnt respect you. you remeber the movie casino remeber leftys wife how she would give money to her old pimp boyfirend and tell him she loves him. well why was she with lefty casue he gave her everything and made her rich. buddy look shes only with u casue you pose the best life for her shes not someone you want in the foxhole with you bro when the shyt hits the fan. That what u want wouldnt u be much happeir with a person that would never do anything to hurt you that was scared to lose u cause you were everything not someone who is just with u casue it makes things easy
2007-03-25 09:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has double standards! It isn't fair! I wish things wouldn't be this way. I'm not sure what to tell you about how to solve this problem except to tell her how you feel. If it doesn't help, break up.
2007-03-25 09:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by nelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants her cake and eat it too. If your not allowed then she shouldn't be either. I hope this old fart has money or something. Move on she is a gold-digger.
2007-03-25 09:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by KRAZEDnKONFUSED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. She's in a power play with you and needs therapy to be able to have a real, adult relationship.
2007-03-25 09:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by Biff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was with some 70 yr. old guy with health problems.....pfft!
Let her go back to him.... She sounds....awful.
2007-03-25 09:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by dollbabe92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋