GIrLFRIEND....?

Question

Me and my girlfriend are both pretty young and have been w/ eachother for 6-7 months. She was one of those girls that was all abstinence and wouldnt ever do any of that kind of stuff when I met her but shes changed. Weve been just fooling around for the past like 6 months, but she said she wanted to go all the way. Now this might just sound fruity,gay, whatever but its her first time and I want to make it like special for her and not in like the back seat of a mazda or soemthing. Any Ideas?

Answer 1

yeah dont do it you her how commited you are to her instead she is not ready yet she is just testing to see if yuo really care

Answer 2

Finding a place where you both can be private for up to forty-eight hours can be difficult at that age where most people are planning on losing their virginity. But it's worth it. Cars are no longer big enough to have sex in, and the outdoors has less privacy, bugs, sand, and pine needles.

A bed is probably the best thing to make love in, still. Hopefully you'll have a room to yourself, with all the amenities that a bedroom affords, including heat, comfort, space, and the bathroom. Take a shower together! If you're about to have sex, you've probably had your hands all over each other before now. Get to know each other's bodies. Take your time. That's what lovemaking is about.

It may sound funny, but your penis, which has worked great for years, may suddenly go on strike at your first chance at "real" sex. That's natural -- you're nervous. Take a deep breath. Do something else for a while with your hands, your lips and your tongue. Try to forget about your anxiety, and your penis will respond. It's only a temporary thing.

Another common concern is size. The average penis is slightly more than five and a half inches in length when erect, and that's more than enough to hit every major nerve center in the vagina, the legendary G-spot included. The vagina is capable of stretching to take a large penis, or shape itself to pleasure a small one. Size has very little to do with your ability as a lover.

Another common issue is shape. Some men become concerned because their penis bends downwards, or to the left, and assume that because they never see men like them in erotic movies that they're not normal. Others worry that a downward bend will make sex difficult or painful because the vagina isn't shaped with that bend in mind.

Keep in mind that sex can be performed in any number of positions. The penis and vagina can be matched in many different ways, and each new position can bring new pleasures to you and your partner. Some people believe that a downward-bending penis is much easier to perform oral sex upon.

Being a good lover doesn't happen automatically. With the right partner, time, care, and practice, you have everything you need to become a great lover. Your first times, for both you, will be fumbling and awkward, but hopefully they'll be the start of great times for the rest of your lives.

If you actually climax much too soon before you wanted to, take your time, take a nap, and try again. The second time you should be much more relaxed and ready to take your time -- so will your penis.

Well, this may not be your first time, but since you've been with her for over seven months with no sex all the above may happen.

Answer 3

Want to be romantic? Use a condom. Trust me, she might not care as much about the romance in nine months. Be sensible, if she's young, wait it out. I mean, if an option for a suitable place for your first time is backseat of a car, you might both still be too young...

Answer 4

Here's a real good tip for you kid. A virgin's first time is never what it's cracked up to be no matter how right you try to make it.

It's the 2nd time is where she has an appreciation for what you taught her the first time, that's the time when she is going to learn how to insticntively move her hips in motion with you and have her first marathon sex session. !st time virgin sex sucks...for almost all women.

Answer 5

Personally, I would say wait anyway BUT you're young and are probably going to anyway so all I can say is please be safe and use condoms so she doesn't get pregnant. Don't have any ideas for the other part though 'cause I think hotel rooms are cheap too.

Answer 6

First times never end up seeming special no matter what you do, usually just end up a little awkward. So, just lay some pipe and don't worry about it

Answer 7

Dont do it if you are young is my only suggestion. As great as it sounds it will be, you will almost certainly have regrets if you are young. Trust me, as wrong as that sounds, its experience speaking. I am a guy who never thought I could possible regret doing it when I was younger. I was wrong.

Answer 8

dont do it....obviously she has changed and abstinence is key......stupid people go all the way when they are young...wait until u are older and ready for the responsibility is something does happen. one even can change your life forever

Answer 9

Abstinence isnt all that bad. And how young is pretty young?

Answer 10

if you are sure its wht u both really want take her out for a meal then back to ur place