im in love with my step brother..we kissed like 2yrs ago and then me and my dad stop talking for 2 yrs now im talking to my dad agian and seeing my step brother agian..he has tryed playing footsie and stuff..but im scared i dong have the confedence to come out and ask do you feel the same? what do i do does he like me or was he using me? I need help hes all i think about everything i look at reminds me of him...And all i want to know does he feel the same i dont want to complecate things with my dad and step-mom but im really in love im 15 he is 16...What do i dooooo????
2007-03-25 09:11:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have been step bor and sis for 2 yrs but i havent been around till last november.
2007-03-25 09:41:36 · update #1
get tickets to the jerry springer show and see what happens
2007-03-25 09:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's a good idea to get involved with a step sibling if you're living in the same house hold. If this does not apply, I then would talk with you're Dad about this first before getting in to trouble again. See what his input on this situation is. I realize you're not blood related but this is truly a sticky situation. You're also still very young, how about just waiting for falling in love with another Boy. It will happen, so what's the hurry?
Boys at that age have mostly only casual sex and other fun in mind, remember this also.
2007-03-25 09:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get over it. This is a relatioship that cannot happen! I don't know where you live, but in some states this is still illegal. Not only that, what it would do to the famiily would ruin it. I don't care if he does like you, too. The state looks at it as if you are brother and sister, and therefore, any relationship other than that could be considered incest. So quit it now before it gets out of hand!
2007-03-25 09:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by cactus bloom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW... this is interesting... I thought these things only happen in the movies. Ok, well there is nothing wrong with what U and your step brother did... you guys are not related. Things sorta just happened. I say if you guys feel that strongly about each other, I say go for it, but b4 U guys do that, you guys should seriously talk to your parents 1st to c if they are ok with the idea.
2007-03-25 09:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long has he been a step-brother. ?
He isnt related to you at all , and in many states you would be allowed to marry unless legally adopted .
You both however are very young to be fooling around especially with the impact it will have on your parents .
Chase some other guys around for a while .
2007-03-25 09:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calculating on your age differences, you two are most likely not related, am i right?
well, i suggest that you talk to your parents. but love is more important, remember that. if u truely love him then things will work out right. just wait till youre a little older
2007-03-28 12:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by blingding 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ur step brother. Just forget u and him kissed if he keeps on flirting w/ u say i don't feel that way u r legally now my brother! and then walk off.
2007-03-25 09:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by Abby,,[[RAWR]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I finally find somebody that almost have the same problem with me. I like my cousin and he doesn't know that I like him. I think he
likes you but probably he doesn't want to be with you because he doesn't want to break the family. I like my cousin very much I don't want to tell him because I don't know what my family would think of me and I don't know how is he going to react to that. He doesn't want to be in a relationship with you because he feels like he is going to destroy the family.
2007-03-25 09:19:05 · answer #8 · answered by jeanny d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i highly doubt ur in love with him! ur so young, there is tons of time to fall in love- don't rush! but as far as the stepbrother goes- it would be better to find someone who isn't related to u, but since u guys aren't blood related i don't see why not! we can't tell u how he feels about u- ask him! he'll tell u the truth!
Good Luck!!
2007-03-25 09:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds kinda Jerry Springer stuff. You're young, find someone else.One day, you'll be glad.
2007-03-25 09:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by Lala85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but your 15...are your sure you really know what love is? And he's your stepbrother. How are you going to explain that one?
But If you really feel confident in talking to him about it then go for it.....just remember it's not going to make your unstable relationship withy our dad any better.
2007-03-25 09:16:42 · answer #11 · answered by Kris 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋