Okay, i'm 23 and I have never had a girlfriend before. I've had sex with 2 prostitutes, the second one cost me only a ride from the bar back to her house (SHE was also a tranny). I've been approached by girls before, but I never like any of them because they were either too ugly, even for a dog with no legs, or they seemed to only like me because they were desperate or they assumed i was needy enough to fall head over heels for them, maybe because I'm ugly and scrawny? I've always seen myself as that, and there's many beautiful women that only date ugly men so they can control them. I don't want to be controlled. I love being free, and I only want an occaisonal f-buddy to go out and party with on the weekends and bang.
I guess what I want to ask is, is the source of my failure to find an at least decent looking f-buddy my apeish apearence? Or does the problem lie in my personality/intellect?
2007-03-25 09:04:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think ur attitude to women is degrading, why not stick to the prostitutes if all u want is a f*ck?
2007-03-25 09:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you have more of a problem than you are revealing here. I am a normal pretty girl nerd. I married a goofy guy much like yourself. I do not control him. In fact, I enjoy being with him. He is fun to be around, and even after 7 years of marriage, we still go out and have a good time. I think that you just need to enjoy life. When you run into a girl that you like, go for it. Until then, stop worrying about not having a girlfriend at 23. Stop worrying about having a f-buddy. Go out, watch porn, jack off, and treat ladies like they deserve to be treated. When you treat a woman well, the fruits of your labor will come back four fold. (meaning, she will treat you even better.)
2007-03-25 09:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by nelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
problem lies with ure personality and intellect. if u actually looked deeper in a women besides her appearence u might find the girl u want.
also if u just want a f-buddy DO U ACTUALLY THINK U WILL GET AN F-BUDDY?? u might get a few bangs and she will see ure personality and just dump ure ****.
u degrade women.. simple.. either change that or stick with prostitutes.
2007-03-25 09:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by shrimpy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you seem smart (at least by your choice of words)
you probably can also be funny, in an intelligent, non-dorkish way
i bet you are more than able to keep up your end of a conversation
and you can't be THAT ugly
i think the problem might be the fact that the girls do not seem to fit your standards. don't disagree, think about it a little. diversity is what makes life interesting. okay, maybe she doesn't seem to be your type. but maybe she's really nice or great in bed. how can u tell if you don't try?
so, give girls a chance! who knows where your next great f-buddy might be hiding.... ;)
cheers
2007-03-25 09:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by lady xanax 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it would help if you had a pic. with your appearance or a description. but i think that it can be both... because to some women appearance dont count but personality does 100%. so i say a little bit of both and also you should lower your standards a little bit. maybe the ugly women isnt ugly at all. and women arent objects to be use when ever you want them too.
i think you are ****** because you see women as objects and not people. grow up. and stick to the prostitute. those ones are glad to be objects.
2007-03-25 09:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by mary m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats exactly why you dont get any girls because you're just looking for fck buddies. Girls actually want a relationships and not just sex. Why do you care if a girl is good looking or not if you're just going to fck them?
And yes you're a pretty shallow fcked up guy.
2007-03-25 09:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by =P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem is your attitude about using a woman for a casual f 'n buddy, that's why your only getting it from ho's no decent woman wants to be used by a man like that
2007-03-25 09:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by charitydowling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On the off chance this isn't a trolling post...I suggest you get counseling. You've got issues you need to deal with, beginning with your self esteem.
2007-03-25 09:12:52 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem is most definitely your personality you sound like a fruit cake.
2007-03-25 09:15:06 · answer #9 · answered by HoneyBrisk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem lies with your low self-esteem and immaturity. It's time to grow up and seek some help.
2007-03-25 09:08:33 · answer #10 · answered by Silly me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋